If you want to become good with women but right now you aren't, wouldn't it be a good idea to do the exact opposite of what you normally do?

puaCurveBall · 2014-05-14T09:19:10+00:00

No, thats an entirely meaningless statement.

First off, what is the exact opposite? I don't kill women and stake their heads on a pole, so I should start?

If you can't define exact opposite (and you certainly can't), then there is zero practical value to be gained from this.

Also, its a moot point, because WE HAVE systems, information and ways to get you good with women. Read the sidebar, read the top posts, its all there.

Why try to come up with some ridiculous opposite way when the path is so easy and clear already?

riffdex · 2014-05-14T11:06:22+00:00

Worked for George Costanza...

broeho · 2014-05-14T15:21:35+00:00

Instead of tuna salad and being intimidated by women, chicken salad and going right up to them.

SmellyJelly22 · 2014-05-14T13:36:44+00:00

I don't think it's a bad idea. Don't do the "exact opposite" but try out different things that you normally wouldn't try and see how it goes.

dattokyo · 2014-05-14T16:22:29+00:00

A better way to say it, would be "stop doing the things, or at least the way you are doing them, that you are doing now."

Obviously what you're doing now isn't working for you, so something needs to change. That said, that doesn't mean that the concepts behind what you are doing are wrong, you could just be performing them in bad ways.

An example: I've seen someone explain negging as "giving a girl an insult, then a compliment", which isn't what negging is at all. So when that doesn't work, should he stop negging? No, he shouldn't. He should just do it correctly.

2014-05-14T21:46:06+00:00

There's some truth to it.

"If you keep shooting your rifle high and to the left, should you adjust it?"

Yes, you should. But keep zeroing to figure out what you're still doing wrong. Maybe something in the mechanics is bad. Maybe you're shooting from the end of a breath instead of at the peak. Who knows?

Perfect your mechanics first. That means proper trigger squeeze, arm support, sight aperture, etc.

Oh we're talking about seducing women?

Perfect your mechanics (inner game) first. Then you can calibrate.

Title	If you want to become good with women but right now you aren't, wouldn't it be a good idea to do the exact opposite of what you normally do?
Author	Diece
Upvotes	0
Comments	9
Date	May 14, 2014 8:19 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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