When does age begin to negatively impact you?

noisycicada · 2014-06-29T23:48:27+00:00

Here's my opinion.

First the age you appear to be to others can be manipulated by fashion and/or style. Clothes, hair, jewelry, tattoos, etc.

Second, I'm 32 and regularly find myself pursuing women who turn out to be 21 - 26. Anyways, I find myself talking to that age group quite a bit and have not seen any issues.

rwn_atc · 2014-06-30T00:36:49+00:00

actually age has very little effect, unless someone calls you grandpa (and you are their grandpa). even then it's only when you are seen as a grandpa that it matters.

edit: grandpa clarity.

IpickupGrandmothers · 2014-06-30T05:02:11+00:00

Age doesn't really matter. I mean, it's gonna get harder to fuck for long periods of time as you get older. But, if you take care of basic hygeine and you're relaxed when you socialize, then you're pretty much already ahead of most guys.

And if you're not relaxed when you're talking to a girl (maybe you find yourself acting too shy or overly-aggressive), then it just means you need more experience. That's it. You don't have some inherent inability to attract women just because you're relatively older. You're fine.

seraph999 · 2014-06-30T02:33:07+00:00

Age schmage. I personally believe it starts to affect us only when we think it does. Main thing is to own your age and rock it for all it's worth. It's painfully obvious when a 40yo woman tries to dress like she's 21 (mutton dressed as lamb), so the same should apply for guys. I'm 31, just starting to get my first decent flecks of grey hair. I can't wait for it all to go grey. Sexy as hell.

Also, whatever pressure we feel about aging, women feel to a much greater extent. Their options go down as they get older, while ours go up, and they're conscious of their ticking biological clock.

Caveat: nearly all the women I've been with have been a year or couple of years older than me. Don't know why, they just seem easier to connect with. I never bring up age with them unless they do first.

throwawaypua062914 · 2014-06-30T15:19:30+00:00

To give you a real-world example: My father was 45 and my mother was 24 when he met her in a bar (NYC in the 1970s). They married when she got pregnant with me, then divorced when I was 19.

He's 87 today and STILL has game, although he's more interested in women age 50-65. He's got game because he doesn't walk or carry himself like an "old man."

Title	When does age begin to negatively impact you?
Author	adapasian
Upvotes	5
Comments	7
Date	June 29, 2014 11:16 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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