One little note before I go into the FR I was not drunk and neither was the girl. We barely drank.

Can you just fucking approach that's what went through my mind July 3/14. You big fucking pussy. See that cute Italian? Go up and approach, good fucking job you even got her number. Sweet let's build some momentum. See that blonde? Oh shit she just got approached. Whatever let's go.

Me: hey do you know where good bar food is?

Alex: Yea follow

Me: Alright

Alex: My friends are coming, you should meet them.

Sara, Jenny, Shelby, Natasha this is Diece.

Here I stood with 4 girls plus the one interested in me we'll call her A. Was this the approach that was going to pay off?

We chilled at the bar talking and drinking the finest of brews, Coors Light. By the way Diece Sara, Jenny, Shelby and Natasha are lesbians and Alex is bi. As the word lesbian left Saras lips I knew the stars have aligned. We left the bar tipsy. Shelby tried to steal a street sign and Jenny fell over multiple times. Stumbling our way to the jeep Sara with an assertive tone mentioned "We are going to my lake house tomorrow and you are coming."

I had to do a double take, "Was this really happening?" Four lesbians and 1 Bi, what was in store?

I pondered the idea and came to the conclusion "Fuck it, I'll go."

Me: Sure

Sara: Meet Alex and I at the train station.

The day that I was supposed to go to the lake house I was a tad nervous. I knew Alex wanted me. Although I wasn't interested in her. I thought to myself I only knew these people for a night and now I've agreed to travel to a secluded location with them? Sounds like a plot for a corny Hollywood horror film. However when I experience nervousness I view it as a natural emotion it will be present when you push your comfort zone. It reminds me of the pain you experience when you are exercising. The pain never goes away, you will always feel pain you just have to learn to deal with it.

I thought about not going to the lake house but if I don't go than what is the alternative? Wandering through the streets cold approaching didn't sound like a better alternative. I went.

Of course while on the train I did an approach. My mindset on the approach was to develop comfort, tease and number close. I approached Brianna and we have a meetup set-up for next Saturday. I ran basic the text game.

(Day later) Me: Hey its Diece, it was nice to meet you yesterday evening. Let's meet up next Saturday.

Brianna: Yea sure!!

The topic of using the word date is heavily discussed here. I would advise against using it. I use the word Meet up, I feel meet up is more formal than hangout and less formal than date. Girls generally know when its just you 2 its a date you don't need to say it.

Alex & Sara picked me up from the train station. We had to stop at Sara's house to get packed for the lake house. Natasha and Sara forgot to get ice so they went to the store leaving Alex and I alone. I knew Alex was interested in me and I decided to give her a shot. She proved to me that she was not someone I wanted in my life. I have high standards for women that go beyond looks. I look for someone that's driven, has dreams, ambition and optimism. Alex had 0 of these traits I put her in the acquaintance zone.

Sara and Natasha got back with the ice and now we just had to wait for Lea, Jenny, Evan and Lucy. Once the other 3 arrived we were off girls in 2 cars and guys in the other. On the ride to the lake house I kept a playful frame. I would stick my arm out the window and give Jenny and Lucy the finger. I also chatted with Evan who was pretty cool.

We got to the lake house around 21:00, ate at 21:30 and finished eating 22:00. During this time frame I didn't particularly talk to many people. I sat at the table and listened to the group conversation. This follows a quote from a famous athlete Ben Hogan. The quote went something like this "The man that talks constantly decreases the value of his words, the man that says little holds onto his value." People that talk a lot generally give off the impression that they are seeking attention. Talking only when you have something meaningful to say gives off a easygoing outcome independent vibe and you add value.

Once we were done eating we played some beer pong. As luck would have it the table was broken, I figured it was a quick fix and looked underneath. All it needed was a brace on the leg.

Fixing the table may of piqued interest in Lea. Playing beer pong I was paired with Sara. I did nothing special. Focused heavily on having a good time and yes in case you were wondering we fucking won.

Getting bored of beer pong O says we should go up stairs and play cards. I suggested Never Have I Ever. This probably showed I can lead but I don't know I just love Never have I ever.

At the start of Never Have I Ever I was sitting with Sara and Lea was sitting on the floor. Halfway through the game Lea gets up and sits between us. Half of seduction is reading clues, when Lea sat next to me I began to pay more attention this also gave me the opportunity for light kino. She wanted some selfies with us 3 so we took a few. During this time I kinoed Lea. Arm touching and some leg touching. I didn't want to make it to obvious in front of her friends so I kept the kino light. During this time I had some light conversation.

I feel a lot of my conversations are boring but I seem to get good results from them. During a conversation I try to find more about a girl. Does she have dreams? Is she in school? Is she a person of value? I refrain from talking too much because when i do I feel like I am begging for attention.

Sara, Natasha, Jenny, Lucy, Alex went to bed around the same time. It was just three of us Lucy, Diece and Evan, I started to apply heavier kino. While doing some kino I noticed the sky was gorgeous and I had to go out and see it.

Me: I'm going outside the sky is gorgeous

Lea: Noo stay here

Evan: Yea stay here

Me: You can but I'm going

I was downstairs for less then a minute and what did I hear? Lea and Evan coming down. We sat outside for 20 minutes during which I never really kinoed Lea except for when she said "I'm cold" and I put my arm around her saying "I bet you feel warmer now."

When we went inside Lea and I sat on the couch while Evan was in the loveseat. I started to apply more kino now and could tell she was into it. I suggested to play a game of guess the card. I pull out a card from the deck and she has to guess it. I teased her saying I'm a psychology major I can read your mind. In another 5 minutes Evan went to bed and it was just me and Lea in the living room. We had some light conversation and she showed me some pics of her in her work uniform. Then the moment of truth came. I have never made out with a girl til now.

My heart was racing 138 BPM. How would I do this? Will it be awkward? Then I remembered if I don't kiss her now I won't be doing myself any favors. I will have to kiss a girl if I ever want to be good with women. Why wait? The opportunity is now.

While talking to her I said there's something on your face. She said "where?" I expected her to turn to me and I would kiss. She didn't so I pretend to take something off her face saying its gone now. Then 2 minutes later I looked at her grabbed her head and we made out. I'm quite happy with the job I did. Although I'm surprised how easy it was to make out. It really wasn't as hard as I thought.

This is where my virginity showed. I started to move my hand towards her butt and squeezed it multiple times. She seemed to enjoy it so my hand ventured more towards her vagina. I even got to it and started to tease it through her PJ's. She was receptive for a moment then she moved my hand away.

I remembered a few things I read in seddit and started to kiss her neck and shoulder. We stopped and cuddled for a bit. We made out some more and I played with her breasts, I tried to take her top off but she wasn't having it. So I started to tease her with my fingers, ran them a long her neck shoulder and breasts whispering I want you. She loved it and was breathing heavily I then moved to her neck and lightly bit it. She fucking loved it so I moved my hand to the vagina again and she moved away. I won't lie I was a little desperate. I stopped after my 2nd try though. We made out some more, eventually we ran out of steam both of us were tired. I tried one more trick when I was on top of her or resting I said "I'm not promiscuous..." I forgot the rest of the sentence until what felt was 2 minutes I said "I'm not going to have sex with you." She said "Who said anything about sex?" I never responded.

In hindsight this may of worked in my favor. I went after what I wanted plus the only free bedroom had 3 guest beds 2 of which were in use. I think more might of happened if we had a bedroom to ourselves. I wanted go outside again for some privacy but she locked her legs to mine preventing me from moving and said "you're not moving." I said fine its too much effort now anyways.

The next morning I wasn't going to show much interest I planned to play it cool. On the ride home it was Evan, Lea and Diece. I think I started to show too much interest. I did some light kino mostly just arm rubbing and played with her hair. I'm still probably fine and I'm just over thinking. When we let her off at her home I gave her a hug and kiss.

Here's our texts.

9:24 Her (I sent the text from her phone) - I hate you

9:30 Me - The feeling is mutual

9:33 Her - Excuse me who are you again?

22:50 Her - So I have a hickie on my neck

23:09 Me - I wonder who's fault that is

23:10 Her - Yepp same

10:14 Me - Its yours ;), let's meet up Wednesday

13:50 Her - I can't I have to work! Just like every other day of the week. Haha

Should I ask her when she is free? Or should I wait for her to text me?

Overall I would say the stars aligned for this field report but I'm very proud I didn't go for Alex because she was throwing herself at me. I managed to naturally attract a hot girl and she seems interested in meeting again. Although I don't really know what she is looking for.

I feel the things that really made this happen was that

I ignored some one throwing themselves at me

I only spoke when I could add value

I showed dominance by leading the party to play Never have I ever.

I was at a party with one guy and the rest girls.

I showed value when I fixed the table

I was somewhat outcome independent

I teased Lea

I injected small amount of humor being careful not to go overboard.

I seeked little validation.

Side note on validation, I still seeked validation but every time I did I stopped it and said imagine no one is here. How would you act? Its like what Edgar Tolle said in the Power Of Now about sub consciousness "Its hard to control it but I can definitely watch it.

I believe in the phrase "I believe I am therefore I am" I believe I am a guy women love so therefore I am a guy women love.

I did things because I wanted to not because others do. If no one wanted to join me I still did what I wanted.

A special thanks to the community for all of the lovely posts I wouldn't of been able to escalate if I didn't frequent this sub so much.

I spent a really long time writing this FR and would love to know what you guys thought of it. How was the writing? Was the content? Did you learn something? What can be improved? What could I of done better to achieve a different result?

Cheers!!