So, for the most part I am confident in my game. I'm young and have been sexually active with plenty of girls. I'm sexually satisfied and content.

But for the past 3 girls I have made out with, I still have not seen them since! I'll explain each girl in a separate paragraph. Please tell me if these are coincidences and I'm just paranoid. Or tell me if you see a trend that I don't.

  1. The first girl I met in High School. We were flirting/talking via text so I asked her to hangout. My car had recently broke down so we just walked around town for about 2 hours talking and getting to know each other. At the end of our walk, I kissed her goodbye and everything seemed good. She even sent me kissy face emojis immediately after. We were texting regularly afterwards, but she went out of state for a vacation for 2 weeks and the attraction seems to have died down. Despite my regular attempts at arranging a hangout, she always seem to have something going on. This is fine - people are busy and I get that. But why has she not made any attempts to see me? If I wanted to see somebody I would say "I can't do Friday...but I'm free next Wednesday." or something. She tells me she wants to see me, and she never ignores a text...but nothing comes of it.

  2. The second girl is a girl I had been flirty with all school year (I recently graduated high school with her). We started texting and I invited her to a party. She came and we hungout all night. At the end of the night, I kissed her goodbye just like girl #1. This was about 2 weeks ago and I still haven't seen her since. We 'almost' hungout but then something came up. Once again, despite her saying she is busy (and she really is...she works a LOT) she has not made any attempts to see me. I'm doing all the work.

  3. Girl #3. Once again, started texting. This is a girl I think is hot as fuck and never thought I would have a chance with her. We hungout at the first time at her friend's house. It was awkward at first because it was literally our first time hanging out but I made it work. We all watched a movie, and we slowly started cuddling. Then I made a move on her during the movie and we started holding hands. This was around 2am, but the other girl's mom said I had to leave (random guy in the house at 2am..). So I kissed her goodbye. Out of all the girls, she seems the least responsive after this. I sent her a "Good night :*" text and she responded with a plain old "goodnight." I was surprised. Same boat as the other girls - I make attempts and she doesn't.

This seems to be rather consistent for the past three girls. I consider all of these girls to be 7.5 to 8.5/10 which is higher than I usually deal with. I won't lie - my usual range has been from 6 to 7 so I'm "stepping up" as you would say.

I am not the best looking guy so my confidence and humor is what carries me. What's the verdict here? Should I move on from all of these girls? Should I practice my kissing? I just need some guidance. I don't want to be lead on (I fucking hate getting lead on) which is why I am now hesitant to arrange some kind of meetup.

Thanks to anyone who gives me some advice.