So when I am out specifically to socialize, especially when I am with friends, I find it easy to get loose and in state.

Prime example is going to a music event, even stone cold sober I can get a pretty good vibe going and do well.

But when I go out for just regular things, shopping, work, gym, anything like that, I am completely the opposite.

It really shines in shops with checkout girls. I will awkwardly mumble my way through the transactions, not knowing what to say, inside my own head, then theres the awkward pause as I am paying by card and waiting for the machine, I'm sweating because it seems so awkward and unnatural.

Anyone else like this? Do well at clubs/bar/event/social settings then get out into the real world solo and just die?