How I feel depends too much on my success with women. How do I fix this?

maouthse · 2014-07-24T21:29:03+00:00

Hey dude,

Realize that everything that we do as MEN is more or less for the goal of getting women. Whether it is chasing $, status, physique, etc. Your problem is not the fact that you are thinking about it all the time (which, perhaps isn't necessarily a bad thing, I tend to do the same whether I have a few girls in my rolodex or none), it is that you are too dependent on outcome. You must realize that most of the time rejection is not a reflection of your own abilities/value/skills, but it is a reflection of the girl's mood/situation/availability. Work on developing yourself into the man you want to be, and the women will naturally come your way. Once you are confident enough in yourself that you can brush off any rejection as "her loss…"/"too bad for her…"/ "NEXT!"/"Thanks for not wasting my time any further", you will have abundance. Chin up and good luck

etcomro · 2014-07-24T21:10:43+00:00

Are you doing at least 3 of the following 6 things every morning? Exercise, meditation, affirmations, visualization, reading, journal. I doubt you are. Start now. And realize a couple things,

your value is exactly how high as you think it is - why haven't you approached or even start living the life that makes you happy? Because you haven't given yourself permission to do so
feelings are fleeting. Including hunger. No seriously. Feelings from your brain are merely suggestions but you have power over your "state" at any one moment if you make the decision and change your physiology.

I got a few books I want you to read

Awaken the Giant Within - Tony Robbins
The Power of Now or A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle (or both)
Miracle Morning by Hal Elrod

You've tried the therapy route and that didn't work for you and to be honest I don't know too many people who have had their lives transformed in a shrink's office. It's up to you. You have all the power over yourself and no one will do it for you. Get to work.

EDIT: After you have all this stuff in place, then worry about the ladies. After you read that stuff check out no more than one RSD program.

Title	How I feel depends too much on my success with women. How do I fix this?
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Date	July 24, 2014 8:32 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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