Okay, I've been having some anxiety issues with women who I find physically attractive. I can open most women but can't get beyond the small talk with ones I find hot. AKA I cannot be vulnerable around women who are attractive in my eyes. It's almost like my entire thought process gets clouded with fear and anxiety once conversation gets past the first few minutes of small talk and into the deeper things in life.

My question is: are women who are physically attractive more difficult to talk to because they know they're attractive? Or, am I making women who I find attractive more difficult to talk to thus creating anxiety and fear in myself?

I can close woman easy if I don't find them fitting my personal attraction preferences... like most guys, I would think.

Anyways, these behaviors and thought processes (or lack thereof) towards women who i want to get to know are so damn frustrating... I just don't know how to get over it. Im contemplating taking antidepressants to lower my anxiety in these situations... sounds crazy, I know. But, it seems like the most logical option at this point (maybe it's just anxiety issues that other guys don't have).