I went to see an emo/punk band called Joyce Manor (unmanly I know but they're so good if you give them a shot) in Sacremento. I have long hair (Unmanly too I guess but I look awful with short hair) and people like to mess with me by tugging it. Normally they stop when I politely say "that's enough". During one of their more pop punkish songs, some douche looks at me and laughs with his friends then walks someplace else. a minute later I feel someone pull my hair. after three tugs I turn around and tell him to stop, then he gave me the finger. I turn around again and he continues. I didn't want to make a scene since the lead vocalist gets pretty anal about hurting people at their shows (the reason they remind everyone constantly to not mosh or stage dive), so I discretely grabbed his jaw and gave him the stare of death. I squeezed harder and harder until he said "okay okay". I let him go and he leaves me alone. I was in the far left in case anyone saw it and wants to confirm, I turned a few heads.

edit: a few things I left out. out of the six heads I turned. only one decided to do something which was to mouth the words "come on, stop" around the same time he said "okay okay". apparently he'd been messing with other people too.