Tips how to talk with girls

wifestealer19 · 2014-09-14T00:54:01+00:00

i usually don't prepare for this stuff. I just talk to her like i were talking to a friend. I mean, if she is interested in you, she will ask some stuff too and it won't be a interview. The only difference is that i pay more attention to what she says and, because of that is very easy to find things in common :)

johnnymaddick · 2014-09-14T12:20:37+00:00

Play games. Question game is my fav, I would say its a must. Its like truth or dare, but without dares.
Make your conversation sexual, ask relationship related questions. As a rule of thumb avoid all interview questions, you may even tell her that you dont want an interview.
Talk about dreams, preferences, spirituality, lifestyles.
Always steer to sexual connotations. She must know that you sexually attracted to her, and she must get comfortable with this idea and comfortable with discussing sexual stuff with you.
Escalate verbally and physically.
Stay outside of a usual date frame!

3 minute video on this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Gq4c6Y4cX4&index=10&list=PLawWtI3M1n0LBjTNGvJDlifOycPvuzmh_

Peace,

JM

recyclablebantha · 2014-09-14T14:17:03+00:00

i dont want to fall into interview mode and try to impress her. can you guys give me some tips how can i make conversation more fluid?

Yeah. Don't focus on talking about yourself. Certainly don't spend time giving convoluted explanations for what you do for work.

PAY ATTENTION to her. There is no magic rule to make things more fluid. You just pay attention.

Ask a question.
When she opens her mouth to answer, you LISTEN. Don't think about what you want to say. LISTEN. That's all your brain should be doing.
After she finishes talking, THEN you think about what she said, and take a second to think of what to say in response. You should be shooting to take what she JUST said and ask for some clarification or to dig deeper into the overall subject.

If you dig deeper, you won't go into interview mode. That happens when you completely drop a thread after she only says one or two sentences about the subject.

danhakimi · 2014-09-14T01:34:46+00:00

Neal Caffrey does it really well ( he's a fictional character in a tv show)

When a girl asks you what do you do be descriptive. If you're an accountant don't just say it flat out. Say " I account for the financial transactions and activities that occur in the company I work for "

If you work in the medical field " I use my medical skills to help people in need during medical situations "

Nobody wants to hear a flat out lawyer, accountant, blah blah blah. Create almost a sentence thats enticing but not bragging.

When you want to ask her a question make it in a playful tone. Instead of asking what do you do for a living ask, if you didn't work the job you were working right now, what would you do instead? If money weren't an issue, what would you be doing differently. Its a question that makes her think.

Language is not to communicate only, its to captivate the other person with words of poetry and connect with words of understanding.

If you want to come off as a charmer the best thing you can do is make her the center of attention in the conversation. I do this through the WHY trick.

If she says that she would like to, if money weren't a problem, work at a day care. Ask her why a day care, are you an only child? And really work on UNDERSTANDING WHY she does things and wants things. It'll not only make you seem more mysterious because she'll know less about you, but it'll make it seem as if you know more about her than most people do.

Best of luck buddy!

Acceleratu · 2014-09-14T10:31:25+00:00

Use statements in stead of questions. Like: "You look like the kind of girl who really enjoys to go for long romantic ostrich rides." Make it funny or tease her and see how she reacts. Usually the conversation starts flowing naturally after one of these.

Ohuma · 2014-09-14T09:28:27+00:00

You don't need to have have a conversation lined up. Just have it in your mind that you want to ask her out. When you realize you're having a good conversation flowing, say, "Hey, what are you doing wednesday night? Let's grab a drink."

Title	Tips how to talk with girls
Author	enteringscreen
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Date	September 14, 2014 12:04 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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