How to always be in "mindset"?

ericblobb · 2014-11-27T23:04:46+00:00

RSDTodd made a video on this. I summarized his four points below:

You can always do the best that you can in that moment. There is no excuse for not taking action.

Steps From Todd:

Take one right action - focus on just doing one right thing. Maybe just saying hi, or just walking up to her
Release from outcome - purposely try to fail. You're already failing so why not fail in a funny way
Changing focus or goal - focus on another aspect of game. Maybe work on dance floor game if your dance floor game sucks. Or maybe focus on trying to turn a lame set into an interesting set. Kind of like step 1
Change your physiology - shout at the top of your lungs, do something really stupid, approach a girl with your hand on your crotch and act like everything's normal

hurennn · 2014-11-28T01:43:51+00:00

you're experiencing a lack of positive reinforcement for your behavior that you previously were getting the day before. it's like painting a picture, and having to wake up the next day and start all over. you've taken this "mindset" as a facade and have not made it a part of your personality. you were simply acting.

how do you get it back? get up right now. walk outside, tell the first person you see that you really like the way their ankles compliment their eyes. then you keep fucking walking. do this a few times, and then proceed to be a normal human being once you've realized it doesnt matter what some random person thinks about you.

John_Q44 · 2014-11-28T06:06:05+00:00

If your a big fan of RSD you might have come across the book The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle. I suggest you skim through some of the beginning chapters of this book where it talks about how to get out of your head. I get what you mean about feeling like a dumbass stuck in your head when a day ago you felt like you were the man. You gotta learn how to shut off your mind and just take action. Check out James Marshall for more on this, but essentially, when your feeling stuck in your head, for a moment just take a slow deep breath, try to get yourself into your body and out of your mind. And then just go for it man, do what your non thinking self wants to do. Once you make a couple approaches you should start getting in the zone. ' Most important thing really is to not give a fuck about rejection and try to laugh off any negative thoughts you might create, control your mind by taking action don't let it trick you into feeling serious

JesperSB_com · 2014-11-29T08:35:31+00:00

Next time you meditate then go back and remember how it felt to be in "the zone.". It might take 3-5 minutes to do it first time.

When you re-experience it, you get in the zone again.

After a couple of tries you will be able to do it faster, and also when you are on the street.

And when you meditate, then think about "what limits you from being that way all the time.?"

incognito_fapper · 2014-11-30T19:00:52+00:00

something that actually helps me is listening to certain upbeat types of music to get me pumped.

Title	How to always be in "mindset"?
Author	enteringscreen
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Date	November 27, 2014 10:03 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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