What to do when another guy puts his arm around the girl you're gaming?

jxuereb · 2014-09-15T20:35:07+00:00

Kiss him on the cheek.

ThrowawayPUA · 2014-09-15T18:13:00+00:00

Usually I just put my arm around him and then start chatting with him

That is actually a pretty good response. The main idea here is to make it seem like you are reacting normally to a social interaction, but the other guy is acting awkwardly. Women know who has social skills and who doesn't.

Iago26 · 2014-09-16T00:20:58+00:00

Assuming you haven't met him offer the same hand he has around her to shake and introduce yourself, seem friendly. When he falls for it, put your other hand around her and continue questioning him in a friendly manner. Its on him to turn the situation into an overtly unfriendly one.

K1ng_W1zard · 2014-09-16T02:09:40+00:00

I automatically leave. I'm not going to hang around when there's usually other chicks nearby and that makes her forget all about him wondering where YOU went while avoiding the pissing match altogether. Works pretty good.

PRseduc · 2014-09-16T03:45:03+00:00

Dont leave just dont acknowledge him. One time this guy come while im talking to a girl, makes out with her, and then goes to play beer pong they had at the bar. I just totally ignored it and acted like it never happend and kept talking to her right where we left off. She loved it. you can dap him up and then keep gaming also. Key is to make the girl invest in you and then pull her to you. I pull girls off of guys all the time. Then they are the ones to leave.

Cali_Val · 2014-09-15T18:23:40+00:00

I got a problem with this. I'm a much more "alpha" type guy when im with my girl, so if I'm talking to friends or a group or whatever and then I see some kid tryin to game my girl, I will put my arm around her.. I don't know who this cat is but he's tryin on my girl? he'd better introduce himself and show ME respect. If he tried to put his arm around me, I'd shove his ass off. I'd treat you like some loser and because that's my girl, you'd lose. And that'd be the end of it.

Now I've flipped this, you should find out who this guy is to her first. Don't put your arm around him. I've gone in for a "whats up" type of handshake, IF I see he wont reciprocate I tap him on the shoulder, hard enough to make him know IM in control, but not so hard where he takes it offensively. Then game him. take control of his mind too, and finally "How do you two know each other?"

If he's just a friend, Bam, fuck that nigga, im onto that girl now.

If he's a boyfriend, I find out if its less than 2 months, if it is, im taking his girl, if not, I respect that.

But don't put your arm around him when you first see that. If he's "alpha" enough to put his arm around a girl and she reciprocates, you should realize "he'd prolly shove me off" or swing.

Title	What to do when another guy puts his arm around the girl you're gaming?
Author	seduce_my_anus
Upvotes	1
Comments	27
Date	September 15, 2014 5:55 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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