Guys who started dating in their mid-to-late 20's (25-29), how tough was it? Where do I start?

etcomro · 2014-09-18T16:37:38+00:00

Online game is going to be perfect for you. As long as you can put some work into writing a half decent profile you'll do well. Tucker Max just had a Mating Grounds podcast about online game that's pretty good.

You should be fine. Just get out there. The biggest thing you have going against you at this point is yourself. Again, the Mating Grounds podcast is a good start for getting your mindset right and figuring out what women want.

Also, very important.. be working on your mate value. Meaning.. spend some time getting your career figured out, eat well, get plenty of sleep, and lift heavy things 2-3 times a week. And don't get into a relationship the first girl that rides your cock.

projectm35 · 2014-09-18T16:47:10+00:00

I got divorced at age 31. I'd been with one girl for over ten years, and only a handful of them before that.

What I learned: as a guy your stock keeps going up until at least 40. I date more 22 year olds now than I probably could have when I was 22. And better ones.

If anything, your best years are ahead of you man.

RandianHero · 2014-09-18T16:38:43+00:00

I have a good friend who didn't lose his virginity until he was twenty-four, but who now hooks up with new girls on an almost weekly basis. It's just like starting any other new skill set late: it probably won't come as naturally to you as to someone who's been doing it since they were a kid, but you can still do just fine if you set your mind to it.

As for being upfront about it, I'll leave you with this piece of advice: nobody needs to know anything ever. Play your cards close to your chest and be enigmatic. An open book is never interesting, but a man of mystery always is.

ATXweirdobrew · 2014-09-19T04:44:59+00:00

I totally agree about just getting your life on track. I didnt lose my virginity until I was 22 with the woman I thought I was going to marry and was in a three year relationship with. Here safe my biggest tidbits of advice.

1.Realize that women want sex and relationships just as much as we do. We as men are why more forward about it then women. 2. Women will play hard to get because they dont want to be seen as sluts when its perfectly fine in our society for men to see multiple women. Dont get me started on the whole fucked up lock and key analogy. 3.Make sure there are plenty of things in your life that make you happy. If being with a girl you just met today and planning out your whole future with her is all that makes you happy then you need to find happiness somewhere else. 4.Be fun, but also learn how to be funny in a witty way. If you can make a woman laugh you are half way into their bed. 6.If a cute girl rejects you, stay good friends with them. Cute girls tend to have cute girlfriends. 5.Ultimately, just have fun. Be with people who are fun to be around but also cut those out that only bring drama. Whether it is girls or just friends.

ATXweirdobrew · 2014-09-19T04:45:02+00:00

I totally agree about just getting your life on track. I didnt lose my virginity until I was 22 with the woman I thought I was going to marry and was in a three year relationship with. Here are some of my biggest tidbits of advice.

1.Realize that women want sex and relationships just as much as we do. We as men are way more forward about it then women.

Women will play hard to get because they dont want to be seen as sluts when its perfectly fine in our society for men to see multiple women. Dont get me started on the whole fucked up lock and key analogy.

3.Make sure there are plenty of things in your life that make you happy. If being with a girl you just met today and planning out your whole future with her is all that makes you happy then you need to find happiness somewhere else.

4.Be fun, but also learn how to be funny in a witty way. If you can make a woman laugh you are half way into their bed.

5.If a cute girl rejects you, stay good friends with them. Cute girls tend to have cute girlfriends.

6.Ultimately, just have fun. Be with people who are fun to be around but also cut those out that only bring drama. Whether it is girls or just friends.

zomgitsduke · 2014-09-19T14:27:30+00:00

26 here, ended a huge relationship of five years back in April. Get back in the game with online dating, even if to simply feel it out for a month. Don't be afraid to fail, don't get discouraged. Eventually things click.

Aiadon · 2014-09-28T09:52:23+00:00

The older you are, the more women like you.

Title	Guys who started dating in their mid-to-late 20's (25-29), how tough was it? Where do I start?
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Date	September 18, 2014 4:12 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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