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[–]DaygameCoach 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Dont let people tell you you can't meet women at the gym. BTW, this has been talked about here before. Anyway:
I wrote an article on this: http://www.daygamer.net/2012/01/01/how-to-meet-women-at-the-gym/
Here is the beginning 1/4 of it or so:
"Clients often ask me how to meet women at the gym, since it is a place where they spend a lot of time. Plus, generally they share common interests (fitness and living a healthy lifestyle) with other people at the gym. So, how do you meet women at the gym? The gym is a social environment, a place where people spend a lot of time and often know the staff and other people who are there working out. Below are my tips for meeting women at the gym:
Choose your gym carefully. You want a gym that meets your needs and interests. This could mean joining a gym with pools, running tracks, saunas, basketball courts, specific classes (see below), rock climbing walls, etc. The happier you are with your overall gym experience, the more successful you will be meeting people there. And, you could have fitness preferences and conversation topics in common with a potential match–you both like to swim, run, rock climb, or practice yoga. Tour the gym to see if it has the equipment and facilities you need, and see if the type of women you are interested in work out there.
Dress well. In a gym, I wear cool t-shirts (as far as design, logo, or message), but that isn’t the only way to go. You want to show that you have style. Don’t wear worn out or ratty sneakers or clothes. I have seen people wearing clothes with stained armpits or holes and that is not the way to go.
Get to know the staff.
[–]Drewchem0786 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Daygamecoach's article is sound advice. Basically be friendly, talk to people, and build relationships. Don't just walk up to someone and try a pick line.
[–]GalwayUW 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
100% this. People say you can't pick up at the gym because girls aren't there for that and are generally feeling there most vulnerable and defensive. What this means is that girls may not be as receptive to the traditional approach at the gym as they might be at a grocery store or somewhere else during the day. When you're at the gym, if she's not interested, you're stuck in the same place with that person for the next hour and likely repeated run-ins for the next foreseeable future. Establish a relationship first, and then shoot out the idea so that there's no awkwardness if she says no.
[–]lofiharvest 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Start by doing a search of previous posts. Lots of information to be found there ;)
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