I feel as if women see me as one-dimensional.

windowtothesoul · 2014-10-07T04:18:30+00:00

Being funny is a good thing. You just want to be able to leverage that when necessary and use it to escalate rather than getting friendzoned.

Adamantanium · 2014-10-07T04:48:51+00:00

Being funny is good.

ONLY being funny is terrible, because it makes conversation with you ultimately pointless

DrSeduction · 2014-10-07T07:11:35+00:00

You have to make sure that your clearly showing your true intentions. If you're planning to flirt with a girl that is pretty SHOW it, use a direct compliment early in the interaction and then escalate to kino if she responds positively. Its ok to put in some humour inside it as long as its not completely dominating the interaction. Learn when to be serious during an intereraction, tell the compliments genuinely, add SOME humour now and then (you can do that through teasing), create a sexy/manly vibe through your actions/kino etc. but the main thing is to express your feelings towards her genuinely.

happypillows · 2014-10-07T07:36:24+00:00

It's also predicated on the genre of funny.

The more attractive funny tends to be of the more sarcastic, witty, variety. In contrast, the super energetic outrageous funny has its place...just not in dating (of course, there are women that love this as well).

Think about evolving your comedy to make you a bit more deceptively funny. Remember its all balance, girls don't want a "nice guy" but they expect their "bad boy" to be nice along with the bad. In the end, 1 dimensional is bad on both sides.

You may not have to "tone it down" but you should tweak it to give off a different vibe.

richardwrites · 2014-10-07T08:27:45+00:00

What else are you interested in? It is possible you have an interesting identity but do not know it. If you only subscribe to one reddit you may have a problem and may need to find other interests.

2014-10-07T14:55:12+00:00

It's a social trick.

Try shutting up and actually listening.

DaygameCoach · 2014-10-08T05:29:49+00:00

What? Dude, humor is an attraction trigger. A lot of people wish they had that trigger. The women are IOI'ing you based don it, so don't tone it down. Yes, work on other attraction triggers, but not at the expense of that one.

Title	I feel as if women see me as one-dimensional.
Author	AlecAG
Upvotes	5
Comments	7
Date	October 7, 2014 3:36 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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