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[–]mrsamdick 9 points10 points11 points 11 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link
You like your hand better than real sex with an actual woman?
You wanna be hangin with your bros when you're 80 or with your grandkids?
To each his own I guess.
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[–]mrsamdick 3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
So stop reading stories, go out there and try some shit, and then write your own stories.
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[–]LogicManifesto 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
So what I get is that you're probably a fat, ugly loser that sits inside all day and jerks off so much that they don't find real girls attractive. Did I hit the mark?
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[–]LogicManifesto 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
3 important questions:
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[–]LogicManifesto 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Alright, well I didn't see how old you are from any other posts, but if you're younger than 18, you don't need to worry about getting up and getting laid, cause it's not really a big deal and high school girls don't know wtf they're doing anyway. I lost my virginity at the age of 18, I never felt the need to go out and try to get pussy (because I didn't know how awesome it was, honestly). I have now had sex with 30+ women and that was about 6 years ago that I lost it.
That's good that you don't smoke weed because that butchers your sex drive, and I know that from personal experience.
The porn thing may not seem like a problem, but it is. I used to jack my meat log back in high school between 2-3 times a day and look at tons of porn while doing it. What I found, when I actually got to the first girl that wanted to have sex, was that even though at the time, she was a legit 9/10, I still couldn't get hard because I was used to seeing the 10s in porn with huge tits and huge asses every single day. This was humiliating because ultimately the girl ended up laughing, because every single guy around wanted to fuck her, and when I got the chance, I couldn't get it up.
I would highly suggest stopping jerking off for a few weeks, which will likely be very difficult for you. You should do it once every 3 days or so, and don't use porn when you beat it (which will also be difficult). It will take awhile and you will likely relapse, but in the long run this will help your sex drive (not masturbation drive) to increase, and you'll want to go out there and get it, and more importantly, "want it."
[–]SomethingRelevant93 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I did /r/nofap a while back and it was a great experience. I got to 60 days or so and it was an absolute grind but I no longer NEED to masturbate every day and it opened my eyes on a lot of shit. I wasn't even very addicted to porn, it's just something every guy should do at least once.
[–]LogicManifesto 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yikes, looks like someone hasn't been getting laid lately.
[–]readonlyuser 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Are you fucking kidding me? Then weed yourself out genetically. Be the end of your line. Stop complaining about not getting laid if you refuse to stop jerking off all day and spend a little time actually meeting people. You'll get no pity here for being too lazy and making too many excuses to do the basics.
[–]poontang_conqueror 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I kind of want to but not enough to do anything risky
What if I told you.... there is NOTHING risky about it! Think about it there is 7,000,000,000 people on this planet 3,500,000,000 females!... If you fuck up just walk away, learn from it, and try again.
[–]poontang_conqueror 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
All on this sub is not about seducing women! I would say this sub is more about just social skill in general, which the later come in handy when you want to get laid or what ever.
You should just get over your social anxiety. And the easiest way to do that is to actually go out site and meet people, and then this sub comes in handy with a lot of good tips.
[–]cmosx 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Let me put it this way. How bad to you wanna start living?
For starters. Saying that having your computer and a hand covers your physical needs means that you should stop masturbating to porn. Now, seriously right NOW!
You have probably lowered your testosterone levels so much that women no longer stimulate you (unless they are naked and riding a huge cock on the computer).
Since we got that settled. Once you do that your testosterone levels will start rising again, with every day going by you are going to feel your sex drive burning. You can say you're pretty good once you go outside and get a hard on just by looking an everyday girl pass on the street. It's written in our DNA, the need to reproduce and find a mate. To start doing that you have to wake your primal instincts.
Risk/Reward ratio? Give us a gimplse in your mind. What's the risk? Going out? Getting rejected?
The reward is the affection of a woman. The nectar of life as some will say.
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[–]big_ol_dickhead 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
You don't have a huge drive. Look at everything you've been writing I couldn't pretend to be more apathetic if I tried, no joke.
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[–]big_ol_dickhead 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
There's your problem. You're living in your head instead of living in the real world. You're projecting this failure out of nowhere and pretending it's reality.
I went from pissing in bottles to avoid people jerking off daily and severe depression to having three girls fighting for be and two others I'm interested in with little failure. I mean failure in not making moves and all that, a few awkward times but really what are those. A few seconds.
All by following my life and not thinking about women at all. Learning to love the gym and my art and moving. Shit I'd do if there was nobody else in the world.
Get out of your head by living. Whatever that means to you. Not thinking about what could happen and avoiding it.. We have one chance dude make it count. We're lucky to live in an age with such abundant knowledge.
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[–]big_ol_dickhead 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
To tell you the truth my first approach was a massive failure. I read the game and tried the whole scripted approach which I didn't feel at all and as you can guess weirded out the girls hard. I felt like shit for a while but it passed.
After that I just focused on living a life I enjoyed man. I didn't think about women at all. I noticed more and more that women were noticing me and I believed I was becoming attractive, but I had this fear holding me back. I found out I have some serious intimacy issues after meeting a really cool girl from my roommate. We went on a date and had sex but it didn't feel right.. I was cold and distant, thinking women wanted that maybe.. That didn't last long obviously.
Long story short I learned slowly to let people into my life. Not expecting anything. People will hate and people will love that's none of my business, just live your life and slowly grow dude that's all you can do. Nothing lasts whether good or bad, might as well make the most of it.
I might have went on a tangent I'm pretty drunk haha just.. Don't give up man. Slow down on the masturbation just to feel what being turned on by real women is like. You can take it slow if you want every second day then every third ya know? Cutting it off all at once might seem crazy.
I'm glad you like the gym man its pretty addicting. Fitness is important.
Basically meditation to help stay out of my head and following my interests and figuring myself out. Meditation can be a stress because you'll suck at first, it's not easy, but slowly you can point your concentration wherever you want instead of following it, or whatever. Mindfulness in plain English. Reading is great every problem you've ever had has been written about. It's not as lonely at there as you might think. Or as I did haha.
Again drunk and unorganized peace dude
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