Had another fun night of experimentation haha.
I wa writing a field report from the night prior and it ended up taking me a while so I got out a little late.
I arrived to the bar scene at about midnight. I had about 2 hours to do my best game. I'm still fucking stiffiled. So... naturally, I make my way to the back.
This time I thought twice about my night and the nights prior. I've been going out, feeling defeated by not getting rockstar success, when I couldn't even appreciate how I waas becoming the most popular guy amongst the guys there.
And I started doing that again tonight. I ruled the dance floor, made friends with all the guys...
It's almost like the night is starting to make some sense to me... That I was focusing on makin friends with all the men and not really trying to "get with" anyone just yet.
And when I was giving everyone value and gaining social proof so quickly, I started to gain more confidence and acceptance that I can do whatever I want, something we always hold back on...
I ended up getting all the dudes to love me, giving me high fives.
I danced with this REALLY cute girl HB9, and I was trying to escalate with her on the dance floor... Im not sure what I'm doing wrong, because I was just trying to bring her in closer to dance. I don't think I'm moving too fast, or maybe not fast enough. Maybe I need to say something more to them... I'm not sure. I usually try to ask for their name. I'm trying to actually remember it. I read somewhere that just by memorizing someones name and using it when you talk to them, makes them more attracted to you always.
After I give girls value, I like to just smile and hold eye contact, until they burst into laughter and it works everytime. I did that a bunch.
With the HB9, it didn't really get anywhere... She would push away, and I would continue being the party, unaffected, sometimes dancing with other girls, to where I would some how intentionally end up next to her, dancing with her again.
She actually amused me with her moves, I legit laughed. So I started just focusing on having fun.
At some point I think she may have lost interest. Not sure what I could've done differently.
There was another girl that a friend of mine invited with his other friend. So it was 2 guys and 1 girl. This girl was really cute, HB9 no doubt. If she put something sexy on, I could give her a 10.
I did all my little self made jokes on her like my austrilian accent, spinning her around, eyeing her until she bursts into laughter. Her group of friends loved me and I was the life of their party. One of them is like some guy whose a big fan of my street name, it's silly I know... But whatever, I had won her group. I dance with this girl, and then I pushed away and started stimulating every single person in her group, while occasionally giving her a little more than usual attention. I at some point went up to her ear and said, "You are sooo sexy girl!" she laughed and nodded and said thank you. I forgot to push here and the tensios went to high and never came down... So I pulled in even more with the dancing and she got turned off and left and they followed her... Creeped her out...
Things I Did Well:
I Wasn't as afraid to approach in some way pretty girls all over, here there everywhere not giving a fucking shit...
Got rejected so many times I'm actually laughing about it and how much I suck
Danced with super cute girls...
Ruled the Bar
Became friends with everyone, the life of the party. As I was leaving, some chick said to me, "You killed it out there!"
Saw how I can use social proof to boost my confidence... Increase the size of your TRIBE! Really had fun with your brothers, and unlock yourselves of bullshit. Fuck everything.
Approached every girl on the dance floor
Things I Did Poorly:
Things I want to improve on:
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