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How do you close a girl when she is with friends?

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October 28, 2014

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Title	How do you close a girl when she is with friends?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	10
Date	October 28, 2014 12:16 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2kiols/how_do_you_close_a_girl_when_she_is_with_friends/
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I must admit, I see OP's point, and I have the same problem myself.

By being too forward in front of her friends it does seem a bit rude, and this is clearly a limiting belief, but I feel like they have a greater chance of being receptive if you were talking to her alone -- when in groups, they might be more pressured, don't want to look like a slut, and thus reject you.

I guess the "loss" comes from not only rejection (which is a small thing tbh), but also a loss in your reputation. You must have true confidence to really not care about the rejection and what other people think of you -- but this is very difficult especially when this girl and the group is someone you meet on a daily basis, someone who's perception of you matters in the workplace/school.

Another thing is that if you're showing intent to this girl, other girls in the group WILL know this. They WILL know you're making a move. And they WILL know that you normally don't act like that around them, and may feel not only offended (which is never good, cuz girls spread rumors like wildfire), but also that you're a creep (cuz it doesn't adhere to what you usually do).

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