Is smiling attractive to women?

lofiharvest · 2014-10-30T23:50:47+00:00

Too much smiling comes off as creepy and or needy. Like this girl at this party last night would light up with a huge smile every time I looked across the room at her. It came off as so desperate. Imagine a guy doing the same behavior? Me I try to smile when I initially meet people and when appropriate moments come (Someone says something funny,etc). If you are like me, one who suffers from bitchy resting fair, learn to create a different face for your resting or neutral position. This makes you much more approachable. Also do not under-estimate the power of a well placed smirk whilst dealing with women.

DaygameCoach · 2014-10-30T23:45:51+00:00

Smiling is good. You want to be friendly and fun. Don't hangout with people who think smiling is creepy. :)

Blastro425 · 2014-10-30T22:12:31+00:00

It depends on how good you look overall and how healthy your smile is, from an aesthetic standpoint. If you have nice, straight, white pearly teeth and you don't have a deformed cock growing out of your eye socket, yeah, smiling is good. Now, if you have cockeye and your grill looks like you chew on gravel and turds all day long, well, smiling won't be as...effective.

Now, let us pretend you fall into the category of "good smile" and not "shit rocks". You still have to figure out what type of smile you're giving and how often you're doing it. But u/alwaysandalways covered that point, so I won't go into it.

jacks_not_surprised · 2014-10-31T00:47:41+00:00

Not caring about what's attractive to women...IS attractive to women.

P.S Doesn't mean don't take a shower.

SecretStorage · 2014-10-30T20:57:08+00:00

I think your question boils down to "being something" vs "making impression".

SexySmexxy · 2014-10-31T05:05:03+00:00

Well obviously it all depends.

Do you have a teeth baring smile when you walk to your next class? Then no you look fucking stupid.

Do you have a slight smirk on your face when you're looking at the teacher, talking to someone or doing you work?

Then that's just sorta normal.

ashrashrashr · 2014-10-31T08:59:52+00:00

Yeah, the last time I read one of these shitty articles, I tried to look as disinterested and stoic as possible. I thought I was channeling Don Draper but it simply wasn't congruent with my personality and physicality. I just ended up looking like an emo kid with serious issues.

Then I stopped giving a shit and started smiling whenever I'm genuinely feeling happy. I can tell you that I get loads of compliments about my smile more than anything else, from women and men alike. I've had women walking up to me to tell me that I had a really cute smile. Most of the time, this happens when I'm not looking to pick anyone up and I'm just enjoying myself with buddies, so it throws me off and I fuck up my responses.

"Uhh thanks, you too..."

So that's something I need to work on but my original point still stands.

A natural smile is attractive. A fake smile is a turn off and people can see through it easily. It works the same way with scowls. Don't try to force anything.

Blue_Clouds · 2014-10-31T10:15:13+00:00

Isn't there this problem with seduction when people are thinking its collection of moves, don't smile, thats odd.

Masonjarteadrinker2 · 2014-10-31T16:20:33+00:00

Smiling is fine, if you're smiling 24/7 then I'm sure it gets weird.

jamrock100 · 2014-11-02T06:03:17+00:00

Characteristic of an Alpha male, his smile. Approaching a girl with a GENUINE smile puts her more at ease and makes you more approachable. And if it makes you look 1000x better why would u hide ur ace?

Uncanny_Resemblance · 2014-10-30T22:33:48+00:00

No women hate people who smile. It's best if you just scowl at them when they approach you.

Title	Is smiling attractive to women?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	8
Comments	13
Date	October 30, 2014 8:50 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2kth09/is_smiling_attractive_to_women/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/is-smiling-attractive-to-women.1378836 https://theredarchive.com/post/1378836

Comments