Rule #17: Disrupt her reality without scaring her

Stops her in her track and make her think.

Really think.

Something she has not heard before (if she has, she likely has an opinion on it or a prepared reaction to it)

Example: "You have the best ass in this club" [Opener]

  • Is a compliment

  • Is sexy

  • Naughtily disrupts the social communication rules of polite/nice guy intros

  • She doesn't have a comeback, caught off guard and has to stop and think how she is going to respond. As she does this, her emotions are swinging between your audacity, your alpha status, your naughtiness and yet she cannot categorize this as offensive because it is an original naughtily sexy compliment.

Guaranteed to "disrupt" her reality.

More often than not - Checkmate!