[FR] F-Closed Bartender From My Favorite Bar on "Date" Two...

confusedcsguy · 2014-11-07T05:41:33+00:00

Jesus Christ this needs spacing.

Give her space by letting her decide if she wants to hang before your trip. If she doesn't initiate the plans, or at least reply, just move on.

zoomfrog2000 · 2014-11-07T17:32:07+00:00

Wait a minute. Where do you get adult onesies on a whim?

2014-11-07T07:58:24+00:00

Ease up on the contact now. Sounds a bit needy to me.

dking168 · 2014-11-07T07:43:47+00:00

You already F-Closed her, its up to her now if she wants to keep going.

lolo210 · 2014-11-07T22:33:33+00:00

Let her contact/initiate with you, it would be awkward if things are unsettled and you go to her bar again. Dont shit where you eat

foxanon · 2014-11-07T12:22:10+00:00

I've become fuck buddies with one of the bartenders from my favorite bar. Now she's told her friends about me and another bartender has been pursuing me. She's been giving me shit tests but I don't care, and it's actually working.

lofiharvest · 2014-11-07T19:08:08+00:00

The post F-close neediness issue is something I definitely need to work on. Thanks for the input guys! I think what I am going to do is lay off the communication for awhile and contact her sometime next week. If she doesn't respond then NEXT! Either way, I am quite pleased to have this notch on my belt ;)

2014-11-07T22:41:03+00:00

Good stuff! You did what you can; you sent her the text, and now the ball is in her court.

I don't know if it goes without saying, but don't beat yourself up if she doesn't come around. I've gone through a similar situation. I got some oneitis from a very hot girl this year at uni. It's best to just live in the moment and for yourself. Girls come around when they see a confident guy just having fun.

lofiharvest · 2014-11-10T03:54:16+00:00

UPDATE: I gave her some room and we ended up texting back and forth a bit. We talked a bit more about what happened and she said 'I had fun, but want to keep things light'. So it sounds like we might be looking at a FWB scenario. Honestly I am totally cool with that as I am in the process of trying to relocate to another. In the mean time might as well have fun with someone whose company I enjoy :)

The_leaking_nudist · 2014-11-07T05:41:55+00:00

Nice FR. Not promising. I would recommend toning back the neediness. Less asking. More telling. "We're going on a date when I get back :)". But she might be a little unsure of what she wants.

Title	[FR] F-Closed Bartender From My Favorite Bar on "Date" Two...
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Upvotes	9
Comments	15
Date	November 7, 2014 4:54 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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