Fuck buddy has another fuck buddy. How do I play this? I'm not attached, but I'd like the other fuck buddy to leave. I dunno, should I just ditch her?

dougsherman · 2014-11-16T22:35:54+00:00

Why do you care, if you're not attached? What difference does it make if the other person "leaves"? Assuming you're already using protection, etc., it shouldn't matter.

If it's a big deal to you, then yeah just bail I guess, it's unfair to ask her to end things with the other dude. Be honest with yourself about whether or not you might be attached though. If you're not attached and its strictly a FWB situation, I don't know why you would throw it away because she's banging other dudes.

recyclablebantha · 2014-11-16T23:02:40+00:00

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jugular7 · 2014-11-17T05:04:46+00:00

Matey wants a girlfriend

McGauth925 · 2014-11-17T15:17:12+00:00

So, you want to have multiple partners, but you want one of them to have just You?

If so, I can't wish you well.

2014-11-17T05:27:49+00:00

Generally speaking, you're not supposed to give a fuck about your FBs other FBs. A good way of separating concerns is anything he/she does outside of your bedroom shouldn't be your concern, unless you're directly involved.

If it genuinely bothers you that she's fucking other guys that probably means you're feeling something which means either cut and run or brace for drama because when FBs get attached it's some next level awkwardness, specially if your social circles overlap.

ThatSpecialPlace · 2014-11-16T23:11:45+00:00

So you're not attached but you don't want her seeing other dudes?

SingAlong_Original · 2014-11-17T06:31:15+00:00

If you don't like it gtfo

GalwayUW · 2014-11-17T07:19:31+00:00

I'm not sure what's so hard to understand about wanting only sex from someone but wanting it to be an exclusive deal. I've been in tons of these kinds of things so there's nothing unusual about it. Just be honest. "Hey listen, I'm down to just be friends with benefits but I find it weird if there's another guy. I get it if you want to keep seeing the other guy but I'm gonna bail."

2014-11-16T23:27:32+00:00

Yes because you don't know who that guy is having sex with. You'll get anything he has. Condoms don't protect against everything.

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