Everywhere you go, when you’re out, alone or with friends, you will surely see some women you find beautiful/attractive/hot, and you would love to make them your girlfriend!

Or you know, just to have sex with.

Whatever it is, you wish that you could just walk over and say hi, charm her, get her number, and bring her out on dates.

Except that you can’t. You don’t even know what to say!

Lost for words when you see her beautiful face.

Well, I’m going to make it easy for you.

I have compiled some situational pick up lines that you can use, and it will open up the woman you’re approaching very quickly.

Malls

Say you’re just walking around a mall and you see a woman walking past, here are some things you can say:

YOU: Hey, just saw you from there, thought you look amazing (any adjective to describe her), want to come over and say hi.

YOU: Hey, do you know where the XXX place is?

SHE: it’s there (or whatever)

YOU: Ya. Actually I don’t care, I just came over to say hi, cos you look amazing. So Hello. What’s your name?

Retail Stores

YOU: Hello, I’m not buying anything, I just saw you from outside, and I think you look amazing, and want to come in and say hi. (Then just continue talking)

If the other co-workers are nearby, you can say this to them: hey just thought that your colleague looks amazing, can I talk to her for a minute? (Then just continue talking to her)

If the store doesn’t have a lot of customers, you can talk for a while.

If the store is packed, then keep the talk short, and get her number, and get out.

Grocery Stores

YOU: Hey, do you know where the XXX section is?

SHE: it’s there (or whatever)

YOU: Ya. Actually I don’t care, I just came over to say hi, cos you look amazing. So Hello. What’s your name?

Bookstores

YOU: Hey, random question, what’s the one book you would recommend anyone to read?

Her: This XXX book

YOU: Oh… nice.

Then continue the conversation

YOU: Hey, do you know where the XXX book section is?

SHE: it’s there (or whatever)

YOU: Ya. Actually I don’t care, I just came over to say hi, cos you look amazing. So Hello. What’s your name?

YOU: Excuse me, just saw you from over there, think that you look amazing, just want to come over and say hi.

Then continue talking about other stuff

Cafes/Restaurants

If she’s already ordered and eating something:

YOU: Hey, this looks nice, what is it called?

HER: This is XXX.

YOU: Nice, btw I also think that you look really amazing, just want to come over and say hi.

If there’s an empty seat, sit down. If there isn’t, grab another one and sit down.

If she’s with someone, say this to that person:

YOU: Hey, just thought your friend looking amazing, let me talk to her for a minute.

Bus Stations

YOU: Hey, did the bus XXX just arrived?

SHE: No/yes.

YOU: Oh, okay thanks. By the way, you look amazing, what’s your name?

SHE: I’m Jane.

(Then continue the conversation)

Inside The Train

YOU: Hey excuse me, is this train going to XXX?

SHE: Yes.

YOU: Oh, okay thanks. Thought I got on the wrong train. By the way, you look amazing, what’s your name?

SHE: I’m Jane.

(Then continue the conversation)

Inside The Bus

YOU: Hey excuse me, is this bus XXX?

SHE: Yes, this is bus XXX.

YOU: Oh, okay thanks. Thought I got on the wrong bus. By the way, you look amazing, what’s your name?

SHE: I’m Jane.

(Then continue the conversation)

On The Streets

YOU: Hey, do you know how to go to XXX place?

SHE: Oh, there!

YOU: I see, thank you. Actually, I just thought that you look amazing, want to come over and say hi. My name is ZXC.

YOU: Hey, don’t worry, I’m not selling anything. Just thought that you look amazing, want to come and say hi.

YOU: Hey, I saw you from over there. You’re the most beautiful girl I have seen in the one hour/day/week/year/my entire life. (Whichever is true)

You can basically use these anywhere! I have tested many times.

Swimming Pools/ Beaches

YOU: Hello, how are you?

HER: Good

YOU: Beautiful weather today, just like your face. ;) My name is XXX. Nice to meet you.

YOU: Hey, are you using a screen lotion?

HER: Yes.

YOU: Could I borrow some?

HER: Sure.

YOU: Actually, I’m talking to you because I saw you from there, and I think you look amazing, want to come over and say hi.

YOU: Hey, are you using a screen lotion?

HER: No.

YOU: Doesn’t matter. Actually, I’m talking to you because I saw you from there, and I think you look amazing, want to come over and say hi.

Finer Points

So those are some of the lines you can use depending on where you are.

The truth is, it doesn’t really matter what you say, it’s really how you say it.

In communication, what you say represents 3% to 5%, how you say it (tonality-35%and body language-60%) represents the rest of it.

So, if you are getting good responses from the women you’re approaching, then your tonality and your body languages are good. If you’re getting bad responses all the time, then you need to do on your body language and your tonality.

If you’re starting out, check out my other post “Step-by-step: From approaching to getting her number”

Feel free to comment and tell me what you think.

What lines have worked for you? What has not?

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