How did you guys start your transformation?

LingerantX · 2014-11-26T00:25:08+00:00

Well, depends how old you are somewhat. Obviously the goal is to go out and start picking up girls, but the way you can do that depends on the setting. The fact that you've started to work out and pick up your fashion game is great! The next step is just executing your preparation.

If you're in high school or college, the best way is to just sit next to girls in class. Like right next to them. Doesn't matter if you don't know them, in fact it's probably better if you don't. Introduce yourself, make friendly conversation, but try to always have something to say, women aren't attracted to boring men. If you have the confidence, asking for her number should be no problem. You just have to have the balls to do it, which no one can really help you with but yourself. Don't be discouraged if you fail, though. It's a normal thing to get rejected, another part of pickup that is always going to be there. Just have to have the confidence to know that you're going to fail, and it's going to make you better.

If you're out of college, and don't have access to classrooms where you can freely pick up girls, it's almost the same thing, except out in social settings. At the bar? Sit next to her, same as before. In a social setting like a bar, though, you need to use much more KINO then you would in a classroom. At the grocery store, stroll up next to her and just talk about whatever's around. She's looking at some microwave dinner? (I don't know just some example) you could start with "Those are nothing compared to Kid's Cuisine" or something of the sort, that would just be my type of humor.

In conclusion, it's a combination of the two "Was it an assignment/project, or did you just throw yourself out into the field and fail miserably multiple times before finally getting it?"

You just have to get yourself out there, be yourself, I know it sounds cheesy, and you might hook up with a girl by acting like a bad ass, douchebag type, but it's not going to help you with your real game. Just approach girls every time the opportunity presents itself, and you'll begin to feel comfortable and develop a style all your own.

Hope I helped!

LeRick11 · 2014-11-26T00:25:51+00:00

I'm not a bad looking guy, I just had low self esteem so I basically started with Internet gaming then went on from there.

The_Sneaky_Guy · 2014-11-26T22:12:29+00:00

First year of college I was tired of being an AFC. I found this subreddit, and started reading. Models is probably the biggest reason why I'm not an AFC anymore; that book was the first big step in changing myself.

I continued my reading over the summer while taking a summer class and working. I took the time to workout and change my wardrobe a bit. I did all this to prepare me for this year; I wanted to get all the girls and really work to better myself.

This year has been huge for me. My reading paid off, but the infield practice did wonders. My AA is nearly gone. I approach as though the girl should know who I am. I've failed a couple times (this one time still eats at me a little; didn't handle the day 2 situation well) but it gets easier each time to shake it off.

It's not so much getting the girl. Seduction comes naturally to those who have the confidence and just don't give a damn if they fail (can't blame a man for trying).

A lot of the stuff I said was reiterated by others, but the post asked asked how my transformation was started. Figured I would just share my story.

Intellectuallinguist · 2014-11-26T22:11:31+00:00

For me it started nearly a year ago. I was in a long term relationship that I felt was going nowhere. Because I was out of the "game" for nearly 6 years, I became less proactive about being social and approaching strangers. I though I was going to settle down and never need the skills to begin attracting women again. However, like I previously stated, I had a moment where I knew I wasn't going to go down the path of settling with this one girl. I began improving my social skills and personality. I was at a point where I even had anxiety ordering coffee. I knew I would have a hard time meeting women if the inevitable happened, which it did nearly two months ago. So fast forward to this point, I managed to become a social person and I have no problem approaching women at bars or in the day. I'm still not seeing much results in the dating aspect, but I do have my lack of fear going for me. I'm still in the process of tweaking certain things in my approach that will get me what I want. That is why I am here and I am glad that the community has a lot to offer. In return, I plan to provide in anyway I can. :)

Title	How did you guys start your transformation?
Author	xiorty
Upvotes	5
Comments	6
Date	November 25, 2014 11:51 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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