Here's a quick biography. When I was younger I had a ton of acne and non-existent self esteem. Lost my virginity to a family friend (female!) at 17, otherwise it would have been till I was 22. Got depressed, played a ton of video games, got up to 300lbs by the time I was 24. Started getting my shit together, reading up on Mystery and David Deangelo. Got on anti-depressants. Started going to the gym, reading up on style and got some results. At 29 I was juggling a few girls at a time (all 4-6's). I ended up getting a solid 9 and made her my girlfriend. She got pregnant. We have a daughter. We broke up. I renewed my efforts at the gym and fashion.

I'm at a point now at 32 where I work at a grocery store, make decent money, and I'm constantly being looked at while I work. I'm down to 180lbs with some muscle, but by no means a meat head. Girls smile at me all the time and make flirtatious glances, but I can't seem to make any contact besides being strictly professional. By chance when I do manage something (you have really white teeth!) they get flattered, leave, then come back in a few days when I have completely forgotten who they were (I see at least 200 people every day). If I can get to a couple minutes in conversation, I'm pretty much golden. But getting comfortable enough to that point is rough.

When I'm not at work, i'm usually with my daughter. I always feel awkward trying to talk to girls with my daughter so I don't even attempt it. The rest of my time is spent unwinding with video games/movies & 420.

My main struggle: The initial contact. I need help with a couple fun, flirty lines to break the ice that have no possibility of being 'inappropriate' at work.

TL;DR: Ugly duck is now beautiful swan who gets checked out daily, but no idea how to go from there.