Anyone else experienced a lost of interest in long-term relationships after having really improved their game?

ThatSpecialPlace · 2014-12-26T04:25:43+00:00

I can relate to you a lot here man.

I never really wanted a LTR before, I've only been in 1 and I fucking hated it. Like you said, I had a vague understanding of how unfaithful a lot of girls are. However I went into the relationship WITH that mindset, honestly didn't treat her that well, (I was just never fully interested in the relationship) she cheated, and that closed the premature chapter of LTRs. It only solidified the fact that I didn't want one.

Of course there's times where I want that exclusive relationship "feel", where there's someone as thrilled about being with you as you are with them. We all do, it's human nature. But I just love the freedom to explore, I'm sure being young is a huge part of that. We're only here for a short time so we might as well make the most of it!

colorbok · 2014-12-26T10:19:57+00:00

You guys are doing something incredibly and obviously wrong. Because if you ever were in a true long-term relationship about a girl that you truly cared about, you would have had the Maintenance Program (Doc Love's The System) and that girl never would have so much as looked at another man, and you would've been sure about it, because when you do it right, you know for sure that that girl loves you and would never so much as even think about being with another guy.

All of that short-term bullshit is hallow and unsatisfying; you'll find that soon enough. But don't take my word for it, who cares about what some random asshole on the internet says, forget my word for it, just keep doing what you're doing and you'll find out soon enough.

Look at these PUAs who get married and then get divorced. Like Doc says, a lot of you guys, most of you guys can get the girl to fall in love with you, that's easy, but few of you can make her stay in love with you. Unless you have The System. All of these guys know the beginning short-term game, but who cares, everyone does. Getting a girl to like you is easy, so damn and painfully easy. It's keeping a girl in love with you that's the real fun and challenge. Like Doc says, even the best ones are hard, heh, if that's encouraging at all. But the best things in life don't come easy, and I never cared so much for the easy shit. I always wanted what was hard to get, including women. If she's all over me before the first date, it's a turn-off. But if she's hard to get, man, I like that. I want her to tease me like a black widow teases it's victim. Love is supposed to be... sensual and fun.

You take them for granted. You think being a dick and negging a girl that's in love with you is a good thing. You think disrespecting a girl and not giving her affection and romance is a good thing. (Of course, you only give her affection and romance when she's in love with you. Giving affection and romance to a girl who doesn't like you is straight up creepy and pathetic of course, sad I have to point that out.) So of course she cheats on you, because you guys don't know a damn thing about long-term game, or marriage, or true, un-shallow love. It exists you know. And all of the empty hallow meaningless sex will tell you. But don't take my word for it, who the hell am I? You'll see it for yourself; you'll see it yourself. If I had to choose between having sex with a thousand different women every night, or having the love of my life truly love me, and just give me a massage or cook me dinner or have me kiss her forehead, I'd choose her every time. Every fucking time.

dj_bizarro · 2014-12-26T14:17:55+00:00

I thought we agreed to stop with these posts.

Title	Anyone else experienced a lost of interest in long-term relationships after having really improved their game?
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Date	December 26, 2014 2:59 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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