I've been # closing the past month since I'm fairly new to approaching and I've had "okay" success but I get a lot of flakes. I've probably had close to 20 numbers and only a few I still talk to.

Is text game real or do I need to talk and get to know them more during the interaction? I heard of "Insta-dates" that solve this.

Also, if it is real, can someone link a guide?