Approach anxiety...again erghh

PM_ME_UR_SECONDS · 2015-01-31T02:51:32+00:00

Search for 'good looking loser', a lot of the site is about red pill / roids / penis enhancement shit but there is also a very good free approach anxiety course. It starts off easy like 'ask 5 women for the time, then leave' and gets harder but very gradually so its hard not to make progress.

seducer4real · 2015-01-31T21:22:19+00:00

The secret is to practice.

Cant approach? Do what you can. Ask for directions or for t he local gym (then also get a membership) or ask for the time.

Do that about 10 times.

Now ask 2 questions. Do this about 5 times. Then ask personal questions, then ask more questions. Keep adding to this/

Forget about the number for now, right now you have to walk through the mud, push through all the resistances and that your mind is putting forth, if you keep doing this you will succeed.

Throwaway_d · 2015-01-31T22:21:57+00:00

AA is a bitch. You need to keep pushing yourself to get over it.

If you can't approach, build up in small steps. Here's what I do when I'm practising:

Ask an innocent question (e.g directions) walk away
Go up to a stranger (man or woman) and say "Random question. Do I have food/toothpaste on my face?" This is good because it is kind of embarrassing and makes you look a bit stupid - but it helps you get past that fear of public embarrassment.
Do the above, but in front of a big group of people. Again, getting used to putting yourself under the judgement of the crowd.
Give a girl a compliment in front of other people. "BADASS jacket, sister".
Direct approach . I do this even if I want to practise 'indirect' game - doing something really ballsy is great for your confidence.

And yes talk to people you're not hitting on too - half of AA is general social anxiety. I talk to the person behind the counter EVERY time I buy something in a shop.

You can also practice 'thinking out loud' - e.g you walk into a shop and say to the person working there "man it smells GOOD in here!" or "it is so busy in here today!" Just whatever comes into your head.

PacoDamorte · 2015-02-01T10:50:10+00:00

Be friendly, be direct.

Title	Approach anxiety...again erghh
Author	ocantu1987
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Date	January 31, 2015 2:20 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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