Getting a number is easy, and it doesnt take long before you can get them regularly and get a few txts out of them but getting that number to lead somewhere.....now theres a trick. Dont let this put off you new guys its still a huge step to get too, but dont get tricked into thinking that because you got a number you are going to get a date.

After getting lots of numbers and watching them all flake im clearly doing something wrong with interest when I talk to them, so what im thinking is to not ask for numbers but instead use the fact im getting a number as a gauge if im improving in things like building a connection, building attraction, kino and anything involved in meeting them as by not asking they will have to offer it which will obviously mean they are very interested. Thoughts?