Some background first (initially I wrote the question without any background information and it made no sense).

I come from a conservative Asian country where the women are thought how to cook and keep the man happy in their adolescence. I got engaged a couple of months back with a girl my family choose for me. When young I used to think I would never settle with an arranged marriage and find myself an independent woman. I changed my thoughts after a few bad relationships (which you could say RP'd me). I agreed to an arranged marriage because our families find the perfect girl who has been thought to cook, clean, scolded to not gain weight all for her man.

There are a couple of things that are bothering me right now:

  • She hired a job agency too look find a job for her and when he told her "You have such a nice face, we won't have a problem find a job for you" she took offense to this and basically told me he was a pig for valuing her looks over her qualifications (she is not that qualified to begin with)

  • She has been rejected numerous times after job interviews the last month and she claims the employers are "all sexist"

  • She will often generalize all men as the same. Every other day I will hear something along the lines of "men are xyz!"

I have been analyzing this the past few days weather if I should be alarmed or not. I don't even know how to bring this up in discussion with her. Perhaps someone can suggest an easy way for me to red pill her myself?

Perhaps I am being paranoid. Any replies appreciated. Thanks