Girls taking a long time to respond

weedmylips1 · 2015-04-07T19:03:56+00:00

Guy10010 · 2015-04-07T18:11:30+00:00

Unless you're dating her, find another girl to text in the meantime. Of find a hobby you're interested in to work on.

Jessie_James · 2015-04-08T15:19:04+00:00

It's like tennis - you send the ball to her, and wait for her to return (reply). If she doesn't, then you need to find someone who knows how to play ball.

If she doesn't reply, she's probably not interested or you haven't given her anything to reply to, such as an offer to go out on a date.

Personally, I only use texting to set up venues. "Hey, do you want to come over Sunday for Mimosas? 9am?" "Hey, I'm going out for drinks Wed at 8, wanna join?" If she doesn't reply, invite someone else. If she's slow to reply, and you went out already, tell her she missed out and you're going with "someone else" [but never say "another woman"], maybe next time.

It's her loss, not yours.

[edit - clarified]

demela · 2015-04-08T14:13:53+00:00

TBH when I don't answer a guy quickly it's because I'm interested in someone else and unsure what to respond.

It is possible she texts terribly slow but in this day and age, if she doesn't respond within a few hours I'd say she's just not that into you.

I've had guys who slowed down their texting and I upfront just asked them if they were still interested in meeting up and suggested when. If they say no but don't offer an alternative, then they're not into me and I move on.

SpaceRapist · 2015-04-09T14:13:47+00:00

Like the title says, how do you guys usually handle girls that take hours to days to respond?

I don't. As they are seemingly not interested in spending time with me, I just forget about them. Only a very young or a very beta guy would linger around waiting for a reply that will never come.

Rx_Love · 2015-04-07T18:47:51+00:00

Well that'll happen.

shirleyucantbserious · 2015-04-07T23:08:20+00:00

If she's not responding quickly without valid reason she's just not that into you.

Title	Girls taking a long time to respond
Author	swedishfetus
Upvotes	2
Comments	23
Date	April 7, 2015 6:00 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/31rv4z/girls_taking_a_long_time_to_respond/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/girls-taking-a-long-time-to-respond.1386407 https://theredarchive.com/post/1386407

Comments