Dear Seddit, As I write this, the keyboard and the screen seems to diagonaly shft ever so slightly but since I have come to value your opinion and find this hivemind's thoughts thought provoking, I shall choose to further continue my endeavor.

Let us begin with the FR

FR: I recently read Mark Manson's Models, stopped masturbating for a solid 2 weeks, it's great, do it, it helps, now to the actual FR. Tonight was a pinning for those unfamiliar with the college Greek community, a pinning is basically a "wear your fancy clothes" while my Greek house is going to destination A with your Greek house, simple enough?

So I started off the night by talking to a few girls by the busses, you know just to rekindle a few friendships for the night and just so I had something to do,

well on the bus ride there, in typical fraternity and YKY fashion, I make fun of one of brothers, I call him a girl. Low and behold a 'feminist' stands up and tells me that I am wrong to devalue my brother by calling him a girl, I tell her that I understand her opinion and still disagree with it (BECAUSE ITS A WRONG OPINION). She tells me that she wants to raise more awareness blah blah blah blah, I kino her, I kino her arm, I kino her arm again I think a common theme throughout the night was I kino'd a lot of girl's arms, but I was never really able to kino different areas of their bodies. Help me on that.

Anyways fuck that girl, I go into the club, pass minutes drinking and having fun dancing with my bros or by myself and I end up in a conversation with HBtat. HBtat is neither particularly attractive nor particularly ugly. But I kino her arm, I kino her lower back as I pull her into me, I kino her by pulling her (gently) to sit down by me, I kino her further by taking her to dance, HBTat says she needs to take her shoes off. I kept up decent conversation for the whole way through but as Hbtat takes off her shoes, a girl I had taken to a previous date party comes and talks to HBtat for 3 minutes. I watch this out of the corner of my eye while I continue to dance with girls, guys. HBtat starts putting her shoes back on, I walk over say "Hey do you need any help?" anyway the conversation basically ends with her telling me "You're too drunk, maybe next time" Lies, but whatever, move on YKY not a big deal.

I'm on the bus back to campus and I'm sitting next to HB2date, a little background about HB2date, at a different date party I was set up with a date, HBL, HBL brought along one of her sorority sisters, HB2date(Hence the name), the entire date party ended in a shit show as HBL and HB2date left the venue in an uber. I talk to HB2date on the bus ride home, making sure to kino her arm and upper back. She is hostile. Her comments do not lend themselves easily to conversation, whatever. As we get closer to campus, HB2date says that she didn't mean to be a bitch to me. I reply with OK, but you're still being an asshole to me or somethign to that effect as I still feel that HB2date is being hostile and I stand my ground. Anyways, as we get off the bus, I ask for HB2date's #. She asks me why twice as I hold my hand out, finally I reply "SO I can text you" She says "I'm not going to put your number in my phone but you can put mine in yours(or something to that effect, all conversations may be slightly misrepresented as I am kinda drunk). " I say sure, whatever, I reach for my phone and she says "Or maybe next time! See you later! and runs off iwth her sorority sisters

Now overall, I am happy with myself because I felt I expressed my attraction to the girls I liked through kino, which is cool! but I am always open to CONSTRUCTIVE criticism and perhaps your thoughts on my interactions, thanks!