Is it normal to get a lot of rejections in the beginning?

Josewasframed · 2015-04-18T23:31:47+00:00

Yes. You will get rejected, even when your game is spot-on, sometimes you will get rejected. (BTW, I'm not an expert with women by far, but I am an ambitious guy who is going for it).

Another thing is that you need to stop comparing yourself to others. Ask yourself, is my goal to eventually get a hot girl and see all other the guys without hot girls and think I'm better than you? NO! It should be something for yourself, like "Eventually I want to be so good at getting girls that I can look at a girl across the room, confidently approach, and have confidence that I can get her." That is a good goal.

Honestly, it sounds like you have some confidence issues and that is going to be your number one priority right now. I can't sit here and tell you to "get" confidence or just "act" confident, because you won't understand and that won't solve the problem.

First, try to develop a better mindset. Read the inner game articles on the sidebar.

themanbat · 2015-04-19T15:53:05+00:00

If you aren't getting rejected, you aren't actually trying. The whole point is to engage them and make them actually give you an answer. You will of course get more no's than yes's. But some will say yes. And as you improve you will get more affirmative responses.

DaygameCoach · 2015-04-19T01:16:02+00:00

Part of the problem is framing it AS a rejection.

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1vibe · 2015-04-19T10:34:54+00:00

Yes. Thrive on rejection.

lupodipy · 2015-04-19T14:33:16+00:00

Call it experience and yes

Llleblanc1986 · 2015-04-20T04:18:33+00:00

YES. I've gotten rejected harshly in public places, and ignored etc, in front of friends as well, painful shit, but I still managed to pull..and I found it a lot better to go out alone when meeting/trying to fuck women, because your boys watching is pressure added.

Title	Is it normal to get a lot of rejections in the beginning?
Author	THEFINALRELAPSEfr
Upvotes	6
Comments	10
Date	April 18, 2015 11:15 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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