How do you guys measure your progress? I'm getting few results of any from practicing for a few weeks now, and getting kind of bummed.

cewbren · 2015-04-28T20:52:57+00:00

I wouldn't be too down-heartened about it all, treat each day/night like a different event, get in the moment and stop worrying about whether you were 5% better than the last time.

When I started out it took me about three months to get from the point of the most autistic approaches ever to making out with a girl and that was through night game whilst drunk...so doing daygame is even better.

RPSigmaStigma · 2015-04-28T23:03:51+00:00

I measure my "progress" by how much fun I'm having.

DreamBoatGuy25 · 2015-04-30T09:05:22+00:00

The trick is to lower your standards for success. Like anything else getting good at game is based on incremental progress. You're just getting started. Everyone wants to run out and start closing women but thats jumping from a to z. You have a lot other points inbetween.

For now don't worry about closing, keep working on your AA and focus on approaching a certain number of women per day, and steadily increase this number. Focus on the quality of your approaches. Fine tune routines, get them down pat. Measure your success by how many approaches you do, how long you stay in set, how many numbers you get, how many of those numbers repond to your inital text, etc.

Another thing is don't neglect the self-improvement aspect of game. It often gets ignored in favor of focusing on what the best approach and conversation methods are but this is a huge mistake.

You should be hitting the gym hard. Doing voice tonality exercises and masculine body language exercises. You should've refined your wardrobe and got your hair styled.

Ignoring self improvement while going out every day doing approaches can be like running into a brick wall. Eventually you will get lucky, but why not maximize your chances for success.

Eventually the closes will start happening almost on their own.

ButtonFeeler · 2015-04-30T02:36:39+00:00

I almost rationalize it now as just a big video game. How many matches of halo have I played through the years, thousands? Think of each approach as a new match in your favorite game. Executing combos to close the deal lol. Sure even if you lose this match there's always the next one (abundance mentality!), and when you do pull off that sweet victory those petty losses will be nothing but the distant past.

Title	How do you guys measure your progress? I'm getting few results of any from practicing for a few weeks now, and getting kind of bummed.
Author	drgreenair
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Comments	4
Date	April 28, 2015 6:35 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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