Hi Seddit,

I had a recent talk with a few friends of mine (both really attractive girls) and they both came to the agreement that the #1 thing that was stopping me from getting girls (or in their case, why they don't recommend me to their friends) is because i'm "girl-crazy." They said that it gives off somewhat of a desperate vibe.

I know people will say that girls can never be the most important thing in your life. That you should fill your life so that you don't need a girl. I get that. I tried to do that, and to be honest my current schedule doesn't even allow me time for a girlfriend. My schedule on weekdays is something like:

5am: wake up 6-8am: gym and breakfast 930am-1230pm: school 1-6pm: work 630-8pm: martial arts class 8-10pm: shower, dinner, study, etc.

I truly feel like I have every aspect of my life set up except for the area dealing with women. I think that because its the one thing I don't have, it keeps surfacing itself. I guess my question to you guys is how to become less obsessed with girls. No matter how much I try to focus on other areas of my life, all I think about and talk about are girls.