Being ignored out of nowhere by someone you were so close with only days ago.

-Tyler_Durden- · 2014-02-24T20:37:26+00:00

Why do you care? It looks like you were one of her orbiters.

Take this as a lesson and quit being an emotional slut. Also, either escalate things with the sister or leave this family alone.

Have you even read the sidebar?

MrPrimeribs · 2014-02-24T05:25:09+00:00

Either you were an orbiter and she moved on because she has a boyfriend now, or you were an orbiter and her boyfriend made her cut contact with you.

Choose your favorite one and then move on to the next girl.

NotSoBetaBeta · 2014-02-24T03:39:46+00:00

From the looks of it, you were probably initiating contact too often anyway. The fact that she got back with her ex tells me that she was using you to satisfy her own damaged ego.

That's just my two cents. Although I'm somewhat in the same position you're in right now.

drqxx · 2014-02-24T06:15:35+00:00

NEXT (She found someone else fret not however. There is another and another if you seek them out)

[deleted] · 2014-02-24T07:25:14+00:00

She was never interested in you to begin with. Women never show their intentions.

[deleted] · 2014-02-24T04:46:18+00:00

Classic case of oneitis.

Next!

[deleted] · 2014-02-24T05:04:52+00:00

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Gold_Leaf_Initiative · 2014-02-24T05:03:33+00:00

Put yourself in her shoes, or maybe the ex's shoes. "Who are you messaging?" he asks. "Just some guy" she answers.

Maybe being in constant contact with you was messing up her chances with him?

The_Child_of_Atom · 2014-02-24T12:30:17+00:00

this is actually happening to me right now. me and two friends taking the train since we were going to the cinema when we encountered 3 girls they both knew from work (they worked together). we all talked for a little bit until our station arrived and we got out. the next day she friended me on facebook and started chatting with me. we talked all the time and only stopped when we had to work, sleep, etc which is why i think was partly the reason that we both wasn't as interesting to each other.

i was a redpiller and knew that she and i had our own goals so i didn't put much into it and knew that we wouldn't become boyfriend and girlfriend or anything like that. last week i was at her place where we got intimate, but i didn't initiate for some reason, so we didn't have sex. before i left we talked about going to town for dinner soon and i told her that she could name the night and i would chose the place we ate.

now. ever since that night she hasn't chatted and i don't because i don't want to be that needy beta guy and initiator. but i believe that i was just some guy and i too believe that she was just some girl. and i chose to move on. if she happens to text me again i surely will respond and if we ever meet up again i will go in for the kill.

if she ignores you just let her slip. she is acting childish and you shouldn't be the victim for that. if she thinks she is acting all cool and making a strategic move by ignoring you just wait until she realises her plan has failed. there have been alot of stories on this forum where the women have returned because they were willing to just let them go. there are millions of fish in the sea and there is NEVER only one. she might have been a 1 in a 200,000.

gt35r · 2014-02-24T18:40:05+00:00

Similar thing happened to me with a girl I knew from high school. We talked all the time and even reconnected so to speak like a year ago. She broke up with her bf 5 times within that year and always came to me with her issues and being raging beta then I listened and gave her advice, banking on the fact that I might get some side pussy from her. Well here we are and the dude proposed to her so they are married now. She moved about 2 hours away to the country and texts me randomly now which I ignore. You are just going to end up being the person she vents to about everything, fuck that, you don't want that trust me.

mrust · 2014-02-24T21:49:34+00:00

You were never close to her. Look up "time ho" in the materials.

You provided her with entertainment and validation while she was bored but now something better has come along.

[deleted] · 2014-02-26T15:54:31+00:00

She doesn't need your beta/emotional support anymore. She's getting it elsewhere now. Move on and don't look back because you just got used and thrown away.

Title	Being ignored out of nowhere by someone you were so close with only days ago.
Author	lfc_rbb
Upvotes	7
Comments	29
Date	February 24, 2014 3:10 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/1yrdsi/being_ignored_out_of_nowhere_by_someone_you_were/
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