I have finally found out why girl who like me friend zone me or lose interest.

I am too good at building comfort, and poor at building further attraction. This makes me an emotional support for her.

I dont know how to stop this, but Im sure I can improve on building attraction. How do I do it?

how do I build less comfort, keep the girl on the edge. Sometimes I am too friendly, but that's my nature, how do I stop being overlt friendly?