Most unhappy person on earth I know is me.

Lefeudufou · 2015-07-11T07:38:35+00:00

It's both easy and hard. You already figured out what the problem was, now you need to use your brain to figure out what to do.

As you read more and more books, posts, and articles about self improvement you will see that the author rephrases what they have found in other mediums and slightly change it.

The most important thing is that you need to use your brain to go from where you are, to where you want to be. Look at the facts. Distinguish emotional thinking from logic. Understand your emotional needs and learn to listen to your gut. Make a plan.

That's for the practical side...

If you want motivation visit /r/GetMotivated

omark12 · 2015-07-11T09:13:59+00:00

I would suggest to start by reading Models by Mark Manson. Then go out into the real world for 2 months and apply what you've learned, approach, fail, improve, and don't read a single piece of seduction theory material during these two months. See where it puts you, you'll be surprised. Then and only then come back here for follow up discussion/questions.

musitard · 2015-07-11T15:10:07+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CcrhwatDkUM

dudebroth · 2015-07-11T20:14:52+00:00

Let me tell you something. I have no friends that I can actually hang out with and chill. I have never had a girlfriend, etc. I don't have the best grades and shit like that. I can't even afford new shoes if I need them at times. I don't even have a fuckin sim in my phone cuz it's not that needed and saves money. And you know what? I'm happy. At least, I think I am. I like skateboarding outside, and I love spending time by myself. Not saying I don't get kinda jealous when I see a group of friends hanging out or people making out, but it doesn't bother me much. I go outside and walk at the park, in nature. I go outside at night and play basketball by myself. What my point with this long ass post, is that happiness I believe is dependent on you yourself. I remember when I was little and the most popular/cool fucker ever and I didn't feel any happier than I am now.

g4casting · 2015-07-11T21:23:15+00:00

If you want to have someone to talk to, you have to actually start talking to someone. If you're interested in somebody, show him/her, and maybe they'll be interested in you too. Happiness has some inertia to it, just like bitterness and depression. You will start small, and if you keep cultivating things that can make you happy, keep going out there and being more social/positive and open, chances are it will snowball and you'll get some satisfaction soon enough. I wish I could make a better post to try and help but I'm exhausted. I think the main idea I wanna convey is to give more and give sincerely, and people will give back to you.

Title	Most unhappy person on earth I know is me.
Author	fu0cked
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Comments	7
Date	July 11, 2015 6:40 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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