Disbelief

80085throwawayxx · 2015-07-27T10:38:50+00:00

"It's easy to be hated, it's hard to be loved"

You want to be hated, cause it's easy. Everything you say is aimed to make us, and yourself, hate you. Hating is easy, it comes natural to most of us, but being loved is harder it requires courage, and taking risks.

So, STOP ACTING LIKE A FUCKING PUSSY!!! Go out there, set challenges for yourself, push yourself. It's only then you'll be truely happy, it's only then that people will truely respect and love you, and it's only then, that I will take my fedora off for you.

2015-07-27T09:52:31+00:00

I am a very very very bad person and no woman should ever care anything about me. I am the evil for the woman kind - I admit that.

You see. That negativity is not helping you at all. Drop that man. You're a good guy who just hasn't hit his stride yet.

ILoveTheGirls1 · 2015-07-27T13:57:59+00:00

First off, get this notion of you being only logical out of your mind. You're acting emotional right now, you have emotions, you just have to figure when to be driven by emotion and when to be driven by logic. That is emotional intelligence.

If you're a programmer then you obviously have the intellectual capacity to study women and their behavior. The more you start to study them and how they act the more you will be able to adjust your behavior when interacting with them. So no, you are not doomed with them.

Third and most importantly, find out how to love yourself man. Start, and stick with no fap and develop yourself as a person. Learn to love yourself above any women. Become the best version of you, and suddenly you'll start to notice you dont have as many issues as you think you do.

Murfdigidy · 2015-07-27T12:17:58+00:00

Well knowing the problem is half the way of getting better, think positive dude. You can sit there you're entire life and say I suck, I'm a loser, I got no game, and if you wake up doing the same thing you did yesterday then guess what... You'll continue the same cycle. I challenge you to promise yourself you'll do one thing differently each day to improve yourself. Make this goal, write it down, and do it for one full year. You'll see small improvements over time but that's the great thing, you're making small steps not one giant leap.

People feed off of what they give, if you give shit you'll get it back, if you give positivity you'll get it back. Does that mean nothing bad will happen no, but I guarantee you'll get a heck of a lot better feedback from woman and even people in general if you maintain a positive attitude.

Like I said you know you don't like who you are, okay fine, that's not the problem... The problem is what are you going to do to change???? Make excuses or get your ass in gear, the choice is yours.

John_E_Vegas · 2015-07-27T14:44:05+00:00

Stop worrying about women. Don't make "finding a woman" or "having a woman" or "fucking a woman" your end-all-be-all.

From this day forward - focus on improving yourself.

This may not be easy, but I'd start with getting in tip-top physical shape. Maybe you've never done that before. But it literally starts with turning your computer off for 30 minutes and going outside, and preparing to sweat.

Walk, run, jog, whatever.

Couch to 5k app if you need help running.

Keto diet. Read it here on Reddit. Eat eggs and bacon every day. Lose weight. Feel great.

Baby steps, man. Set a LONG TERM GOAL.

Pick a 5k running event six months from now, and tell yourself you're going to run in that event and finish with a time of 30 minutes (or less).

Focus on improving yourself, set a goal for yourself, and relentlessly pursue that goal.

Come back here in six months and tell us how RADICALLY your outlook on life has changed, and about your new girlfriend.

jonnyhaldane · 2015-07-27T16:33:41+00:00

Your problem isn't really a pickup problem, it's a low self-esteem problem.

You need to look at the deeper issues here. Not just for your dick, but for your future, your overall happiness and your wounded inner child.

Would recommend going to therapy and reading 'No More Mr.Nice Guy' and 'Healing the Shame that binds you'.

Title	Disbelief
Author	CriticalSituation2
Upvotes	1
Comments	26
Date	July 27, 2015 8:47 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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