How can i pick up women if: i live with my parents, i live in a small town and i don't have any friends here.

JF803 · 2015-08-24T15:27:35+00:00

Day game is your friend here. See a girl you like? Cool go tell her she seems interesting/fun/pretty whatever and get her number. You probably know of a few cool spots in your home town. I used I have a cool little grove that looked out to a pond where I would take girls. Or a cool smoothie bar/restaurant/ play some soccer whatever. Do what you enjoy, but bring her into the fun. Logistics can be difficult depending on your parents. When I lived at home my room was in the back of the house and i have a big flat screen tv where id bring girls to "watch a move" after my parents were asleep, i also had a trampoline in my back yard where id take girls to "watch the stars." Classy, I know, but I've fucked 6 girls on that trampoline and they all loved it. From there escalate, have fun, close.

theonetowardsyou · 2015-08-24T15:46:27+00:00

All I'm reading are excuses. If you truely want to get good with girls, you'll always find a way to lay a girl. If the big cities are far away where the girls are then still go there and find locations, like public toilets, to pull her there. I also lived in shitty small towns with shitty logistics, but I still made the decision to drive one hour to go to a bigger city with better clubs, bars etc. I didn't thought about taking a girl home. I only wanted to get good with them like talking, leading, etc. Make the first possible step and the rest will follow.

WarlordTilly · 2015-08-24T15:41:23+00:00

I'd say to try and make some friends first. It'll help your social interactions improve and it's good to have a base of support and a group to game with.

2015-08-25T05:27:08+00:00

I lived with parents in and out for awhile. Honestly, if she likes you she will go down on you in the room next to your parents and continue to moan. You think that your own place will be like 10x better for finding chicks, but it's not true. You will be so tired from working all day paying the rent you won't have time or energy to find chicks. You think you will be able to get a threesome of girls at the bar to head back with you. Maybe if you pay them. Otherwise it's a small factor. Just tell her you're working on moving out.

landophett · 2015-08-25T09:10:31+00:00

I got two words for you that helped me a lot when i was living at home and wanted to sleep with girls: sex outside. It sounds dirty and like a girl wouldn't be into it but it adds an excitement factor. If there's like a lake nearby or a secluded park just take girls there. It's not for everyone but it worked for me more than a few times

Kraz_I · 2015-08-24T19:12:20+00:00

In small towns, you generally have 3 options. Find a sweetheart young (in high school probably) and get married (although some of those girls will end up divorced in a few years so you will have a pool of divorcees once you reach your mid 20s to 30s), stay single and miserable forever, or get your ass out as soon as possible.

If I were you I'd pick option 3. I don't care if you're flat broke, you can survive in a city if you make the move and put in the effort. Your options will always be limited unless you do this.

Also: ITT a bunch of people who don't know what life in a small isolated town is really like. Good advice for small town life is really different from more populated areas, because everyone already knows everybody.

TheTwoPumpMan · 2015-08-24T20:08:55+00:00

Thanks for the comments.

i should've mentioned i don't live america and shit's kinda different here. i've decided that i should just try as much as i can going to the living city that has some nightlife and hope she has an apt. or is willing to fuck in the bathroom

Searacine · 2015-08-25T02:53:05+00:00

I spent about 1/4 of my youth living in small towns. I graduated High School while living in a town with roughly 200 people in it, and the city my high school was in maybe had 10,000 people if you counted the entire area.

If you're going to be there for a while, my advice to you is find ways to help around town - especially the parents of any ladies you're interested in getting to know more or to simply have sex with. You'll develop the reputation of being someone who is helpful (which will lead to women being more comfortable approaching you), and you'll also begin to be seen as someone who can also be trusted (which will cause women to really open up to you and be quite relaxed with you around).

It takes a bit longer this way, but it's fairly foolproof. If you make a move and she doesn't reciprocate it's not the end of the world because you're such a "nice guy".

Title	How can i pick up women if: i live with my parents, i live in a small town and i don't have any friends here.
Author	TheTwoPumpMan
Upvotes	58
Comments	17
Date	August 24, 2015 12:46 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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