How to not ruin a friendship by asking her out.

rawdfarva · 2015-08-30T19:02:21+00:00

what exactly are you getting out of this friendship that you are so worried about losing?

M3_Drifter · 2015-08-30T21:36:17+00:00

Most likely, you are already friendzoned. If you are known to be regularly going on dates with women, then it's OK to ask. If she rejects you, just accept it. Don't try to rationalise, bargain or make any excuses as to why you should do it or how you got the idea for taking her out, beyond "wanting to get to know her better". If anyone in your friend group mentions it after, play it down and use the same excuse. If you haven't been on any dates for a long time, don't even ask. You will be seen as desperate.

Dubsland12 · 2015-08-30T19:47:05+00:00

Most likely you have already been friend zoned and will be turned down at first. How you handle this is everything. Make it no big deal, start dating other girls and see what happens.

Paul-Stewart · 2015-08-30T23:38:50+00:00

Bro, fuck it.... for all you know, she is very shy but actually really likes you.

I was in this same situation... I told her I would fuck her.... turns out she really liked me and hoped that I would get drunk and hit on her on many occasions. Now we are dating/fucking exclusively..... If you really want her then risk her friendship and risk the social group, otherwise you don't really want her but you are living in a version of the future that doesn't even exist where she happens to like you things work out like a fairy tale...... The only thing that exists is right now bro!.... If you have portrayed yourself as a loser then don't bother, if you are the most respectable and ambitious gentlemen in the social group then she would be a fool not to want you... If you are not the most respectable and ambitious man then become that person before you start giving a shit...

DaygameCoach · 2015-08-31T04:57:08+00:00

Then move on and approach tons of new women.

hcarguy · 2015-08-31T14:12:35+00:00

She's gonna say no let's just be friends anyway. What do you have to lose? Just move to another topic if you get rejected.

2015-09-12T08:31:54+00:00

A few months ago, I introduced my girlfriend into my biggest friend group. Three weeks ago, we broke up. Now I am not really part of the social circle because she is always there. I essentially lost that whole group of friends.

Ask yourself if it's worth it. Maybe a nice fapping before hand would help.

Title	How to not ruin a friendship by asking her out.
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Upvotes	5
Comments	11
Date	August 30, 2015 6:52 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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