I did a bad ass approach. Instant dated a girl that was stopping her bicycle on a red traffic light. "Hey I am ..." Handshake "You are cute." The guys in the car next to us were smiling. I ignored it and we walked straight to my place. I had to cross half of the city centre with her. We walked for about 30 minutes. I asked her if she wants to drink wine. I had two bottles at home. We passed a bar street in my area and finally arrived. She was pushing her bicycle all the time and I had not much chance for kino. When we arrived she was surprised that we walked to my place. She agreed to get in. The next moment she got cold feet and asked if we can go to a café instead. I was not thinking. At least she could have left her bike at my place so we have a reason to walk back later. No, again her bike between me and her. We stop at a café and order both a glass of vine. She is about 20, a student. Tits that are way to big for this slim body. Her pants are baggy but can't hide this sexy ass. She is slim but has incredible proportions. Her body is like an Italian goddess.

We nip on the vine and talk about her and my life. She sits opposite of me. Again no chance for kino. After an hour we decide to go. I used every opportunity to grab her hand and do some kino but the long time without touching made it feel strange. We exchange numbers and say goodbye. I don't even kiss her. My chance is gone.

Next day I text her. No reply. Then I called her earlier this evening. Her answer was that it was a great evening, but we shouldn't see us again. I thought, damn I must have been a creeper.

I asked her what went wrong. Her reply was a surprise. She is in an unhealthy relationship with an older man and it's not fair to use me to forget about this other guy.

I replied: "I'm not looking for a girlfriend. I thought you are attractive and there is no problem if we see us again. The evening was really nice, but ended to early."

She replies: "I'm not the tool for the first men I meet on a traffic light."

I lost this girl.