Just finished reading "Models". How do I stop over-investing in women too early?

SinSlayer · 2015-09-02T04:38:48+00:00

PUA is more about inviting people to share your world, not asking if yoy can be a part of theirs. If you try to bring a woman into your realm, you avoid over-investing in them because you're still living your life.

dhara263 · 2015-09-02T07:32:29+00:00

Diversify your portfolio! Have experiences with multiple women simultaneously. It will reduce your neediness in their eyes and boost your confidence such that you don't blow it when you finally want to go for the kill. And, it's fun!

JessePinkman88 · 2015-09-02T11:12:11+00:00

Well the advice in Models is a how-to on being less invested.

But it takes time and dedication to change your habits.

I first read models 2 years ago, and although I've made positive changes and feel more confident than ever, I am still having inconsistent results with women (although its alot better than where I was).

Maybe you need to not pursue women at all for a while, at least 6 months and focus on investing in yourself only (doing the things you want to do).

guerrillaaction · 2015-09-02T15:18:27+00:00

by picturing them taking the biggest nastiest taco shit you can think of when you start feeling the oneitis.

GermanPUA · 2015-09-02T22:24:40+00:00

You don't have to. Just be more cocky and funny!

meukow · 2015-09-02T22:12:04+00:00

Focus on yourself not on her.

Meet other women.

No other advice.

DateDoctor4558 · 2015-09-03T05:12:12+00:00

Plan activities and hobbies that you can do to improve yourself. Working out is probably one of the best ways to do it. Physically you'll be stronger and mentally, it'll keep you busy and improve the way you view life.

You could also keep your options open and date more women. You'll have more options open and you won't have to be stuck to one girl. Good luck.

JabesWild · 2015-09-02T06:59:48+00:00

Heard about this book a lot, is there a good link to a free PDF copy of Models? Would like to give this a read.

EDIT: Lots of people want me to buy it. Is there a paper version? I only like to buy paper versions of books.

dancing_junkie · 2015-09-02T10:31:17+00:00

You need to notice that that one hot women is living in a world with you with a bunch of other hot women. The points in the book that drive worrying about what you think about yourself. If you focus on improvement you should start seeing yourself as more then worthy of their attention.

AngriestBird · 2015-09-02T05:08:07+00:00

Whatever you are doing that you are referring to as "over investing", don't do it. This is such a vague question because you never explain what exactly you mean by over investing. Better not be triple texting hahaha

Edit: I'm just not familiar with how this particular book uses the word. Chill with the downvotes.

Title	Just finished reading "Models". How do I stop over-investing in women too early?
Author	RiseOfEnoch
Upvotes	51
Comments	26
Date	September 2, 2015 4:32 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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