I want a life that consists of partying , drinking, having alpha males as friends, and sex with hot girls but I am afraid I am too old to ever be in a fraternity, how do I make this a reality now?

PyroTechnica · 2015-09-24T04:54:17+00:00

Partying
Drinking
Alpha Male Friends
Sex with Hot Girls

I think you want this because you've been sold this by the media, because you haven't been able to have this, and because the people who are living this are probably having a certain type of fun that you're probably not having.

Knowing absolutely nothing about you, the only advice I can give you is the following.

Separate what you want. You can get the first 3 things that you want fairly easily. Just learn to love alcohol, learn to love partying/dancing/having fun/etc., and find some people to go out drinking with and act like a crazy person on the dance floor.

Be the guy who loves alcohol, loud music, jumping up and down, doing dumb dumb shit while drunk, and maybe getting high on drugs and is laughing all the time.

Be the guy that seems to like partying more than he likes girls.

Since you won't be caring about girls at all, every night can be a success.

Which means that other dudes will like hanging out with you because you're having way more fun than they are which means they'll ALWAYS be cool with going out with you.

Basically, go out, drink, maybe do drugs, smoke hookah, take shots, play stupid bar games, give hugs, laugh about everything, tell other people that they're "so fucking money" blahblahblah, etc.

The fact that you really don't care what happens with girls or the night (outcome independence) will allow you to bring together 1. Partying 2. Drinking 3. Alpha Male Friends

Just binge, binge, binge (and maybe fine tune) until your life feels like the Vodka Ad you wish it was.

Keys to This

Outcome Independence
Not Chasing Girls
Loving Partying
Not being weirded out if party people bring coke to your apartment
Living downtown so your friends are asking you to go out 4-6x a week

One day you'll have had your fill and be sick of it.

Then all you have to do is figure out the "Sex with Hot Girls" part.

And honestly, not to be all holistic and shit, but you'll probably get laid a few times if you're the above guy. It might not be enough to fill what you really want, but if you chase down the first 3 things until you're sick of them, then you can chase down the last thing without having to chase the first three.

If you were younger, you could maybe just join a frat and maybe get all 4 things at once. But I've met enough frat guys to know that not all frat guys get a ton of girls, let alone a ton of hot girls.

Basically, what I'm trying to get across is this quote - http://i.imgur.com/nT8RD2k.jpg

That's why I'm saying you can easily binge on 3 out of the 4 things that you want, and add the last one in after you're tired of the first 3. And while you're binging, you'll probably get laid more than you're expecting anyway.

CentralValleyAsian · 2015-09-24T04:39:37+00:00

My friend, I need to really tell you this right now.

You don't need to join a social fraternity to get all of that. I just got out of one recently because, after 3 years, I realized my fraternity brothers weren't the greatest people to be around with in terms of personal development. Your better bet, with age being a factor, is just making new friends on campus, join a club with similar interest (filled with girls of course), and continue doing that. Personally, when I was in my fraternity, it didn't do anything. Also the fact that you have to probably pay more than $500 a semester just to be in it. It's not cheap, even if it only consists of 1% of your total college spending for 4 years.

Trust me on this. I was in one for 3 years, and I just got out because I'm sick of all the bull they put me through. If you want to join a fraternity, don't do it for those reasons you just listed. There's plenty of other ways you can do this without being Greek. Trust me.

donit · 2015-09-24T19:27:25+00:00

You need to go back and fix the situations, relationships and friendships you already have. The road to happiness is in you, not the environment.

SinSlayer · 2015-09-24T04:36:43+00:00

How old are you?

lasvegasfun · 2015-09-24T04:48:40+00:00

If you want to party a lot and meet beautiful woman go out and night game. You could also work for a nightclub or something else similar.

2015-09-24T14:49:41+00:00

Get over the fraternity thing. I think that type of envious attitude will kill your chances.

Honestly, just being a good seducer of hot women will get you access to all the wild parties with gorgeous women you can imagine -- way better than frat parties. But if you want to go in the front door, befriend the guys in the club scene in your area.

Just stop being so utilitarian about things though. You are there to have fun not to creep on women. Being a party animal is all about establishing a great environment for fun. When fun is plentiful, debauchery often follows.

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