Alright, reddit dudes! What flirty tips seem to work well when a girl hits on you first?

SinSlayer · 2015-10-02T06:24:13+00:00

First, you coming to us instantly makes you hotter.

Second, unlike women, most men dont get told how hot, sexy, or attractive we are on a daily bases. Compliment us. It doesn't have to be physical, just stroke the ego a bit.

Third, be aggressive but don't be easy. Be the mouse that wags its tail at the cat. "Hey, you're kinda cute. Any other reasons i should go out with you?"

palmerd21 · 2015-10-02T08:29:12+00:00

Extended eye contact then a wink. It's on.

TonyDAbsolute · 2015-10-02T07:25:37+00:00

Even for women, shy and awkward comes off as insecure, or low intelligence. Perhaps an abuse case, or just socially retarded.

You need more social experience. Or you need to understand that valuable men do not like dating weird women.

If you are an actual social anxiety case, you can hire a dating coach to help you.

Being faux shy and awkard because you think that's what men want, is alright if you pull it off...with confidence.

letsgetrandy · 2015-10-02T14:18:05+00:00

I think just approaching the guy, paying attention, and keeping the conversation alive is 95% of the job. This is what guys are looking for to gauge interest, so just doing them will let him know you're interested and he'll make the moves.

Still, there's no denying that a woman who knows how to work the charm is fucking hot. Dramatic jaw drops to feign being surprised or offended. Drawing attention to your body parts. Dragging a finger slowly up your arm casually while talking, as if you didn't know you were doing it. Subtle gestures (eg, shoulder shrug) that conveniently press your breasts together "unintentionally". (cough cough) When seated, turning or positioning yourself in a way that places your leg in contact with his. Telling the dramatic part of your story by leaning in closer and lowering your voice.

You get the idea.

Title	Alright, reddit dudes! What flirty tips seem to work well when a girl hits on you first?
Author	a-fairy-just-died
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Comments	6
Date	October 2, 2015 5:58 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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