I'll try to be as concise and to the point as possible. Here it goes:

I work with a girl. She's 21, I'm 25. She's a virgin, conservative christian. She's only been in a 4 month "non-serious" relationship with a friend of hers that lives in another state far away. She's very popular, I myself have a few friends here and there, but not an astronomical level. I think have a few good friends that you know well is better than 50 you don't know much about. Anyways we've been hanging out for the past couple months outside of work. Pretty much drinking, teaching her guitar, and other shit.

The past couple times she's been over she's always laying on my bed stomach lying down. I've escalated from rubbing the back of her neck to down to rubbing her lower back and even to slapping her ass. She told me to stop and that she wanted respect and that she had a "rule." about slapping her ass. I said ok sure. However later that night we were downstairs and she was laying in my lap. And I tried escalating again, touching her ass this time and then her side and her stomach. She got up and as it was like 3am she went home (work early morning). She also spewed some shit about sex and said verbatim "I will know when it's right to have sex, I just want it to be emotional." I was literally mind fucked. Like what the fuck does that even mean? You'll just know. I was direct and told her I wanted to fuck her, not sure if beta mistake or not.

Anyways this past week she's at my place again, and we're both a bit drunk and she's sitting on my lap with her legs wrapped around by sides as we chill listening to music. She then leans into me like she's hugging me and "cuddling." me saying "I dont want to go home, I don't want to go." It's just literally confusing the fuck out me. She literally cuddles on me lap and shit but doesn't want any sex. Hell she even told me "I'm forceful." Not sure what that means in the fact I'm trying to take what I want/desire, which is her.

Anyways what the fuck do I do about this? Keep getting her drunk and trying or just forget it? I mean we pretty much take turns buying the booze, so it isn't like I'm not getting free beer out of it. But I just feel like she's using me for emotional validation and physical contact more than anything. Also makes me wonder if she does this shit with other guys that are "friends." yea sure she's nice, religious, and has values/morals but I believe that AWALT shit. She's also one of those girls that "gets a long with guys better, and wishes she was a guy because we have it so 'easy'."

Any advice or anything would help. Thanks.