Are there any books that you would recommend for self improvement? With a focus (perhaps) on seduction?

jefffffffff · 2015-10-15T06:34:53+00:00

If I can provide you with advise. 4 things you need to do. 1 A book. Models by Mark Manson. 2 start lifting weights and get jacked. 3 frequent this subreddit. 4. approach five girls a day minimum. Good luck

2015-10-15T05:14:03+00:00

"No More Mr. Nice Guy" would be a good start.

ass_fungus · 2015-10-15T10:52:42+00:00

I disagree with jefffffffff's four points:

"Read Models" - Models is not for everyone. It encourages you to be the best version of yourself, confident and whatever, but it also kind of discourages proaction. For example, it doesn't teach you how to be attractive to swimsuit models, it just says "You're not attractive to swimsuit models anyway so don't chase that type."
"Get Jacked" - Getting jacked helps but I don't recommend going too far though, as there has been a huge movement of gymbros, and it's patently clear that most people are just following the crowd and/or suffer from some sort of body dysmorphia due to whatever upbringing. I'd say that becoming super-jacked is almost becoming a detractor.
"Frequent this subreddit" - This subreddit is now shit. The front page is a glut of useless circlejerk posts. All you really need, ever, are sidebar links. If you need further resources, just branch out from there (there will be additional links embedded within each sidebar link).
"Approach five girls a day minimum" - fine, but actively collect and integrate data from your observations. Don't just willy nilly say clownish shit to random girls on the street and expect to magically improve.

My personal advice? Low self esteem/low confidence is a biological mechanism to tell you that you suck. It's there to provide an impetus to improve yourself and make yourself more attractive to potential mates. You can read all the material and feel-good mantras you want, but to quote an old RSD video, "the brain requires proof not promises." If you wanna be seen as a man of substance, then you're going to have to actually become a man of substance. You can do this by becoming really good at a skill that society values. Or you can become really rich. There are many ways to do this. And no it's not easy, otherwise everybody would be banging supermodels.

DaygameCoach · 2015-10-15T14:50:05+00:00

Art of Seduction. Superflirt. Superdate.

Miheegz · 2015-10-15T17:03:37+00:00

First and foremost Models by Mark Manson. If you don't like reading and are only going to read 1 book let it be Models. Next I recommend "No More Mr.Nice Guy". Those are really the only 2 you need. Get to the gym and lift at least 3-4 times a week. It builds your discipline, your body, and your mind. Approach everyone: male/female/young/old and have just have conversations. You don't need to learn to seduce you need to learn to be a good conversationalist. The best tip I ever read was "just let people into your inner consciousness" in other words believe that what you're are thinking is worth sharing. Don't think what should i say to this person just talk about what you're thinking (within reason) If you see someone with a cool shirt, cute dog, someone completely matching, a funny sign, basically anything about your common world. JUST SAY IT out loud before you have a chance to analyze it. Just share with people your inner thoughts. And when you can have good conversations with people. You won't be afraid to talk to hot girls.

JessePinkman88 · 2015-10-15T12:00:27+00:00

I agree with the recommendations of "No More Mr Nice Guy" and "Models". They are both great books to help with your self esteem.

wickedlobstah · 2015-10-15T12:51:24+00:00

60 days of challenge

Gearbulk · 2015-10-15T17:35:08+00:00

The book of Pook.

Title	Are there any books that you would recommend for self improvement? With a focus (perhaps) on seduction?
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