How to find out about parties and other big social events?

evilgenivs · 2015-10-31T16:10:14+00:00

Wow, wanted the same advice, but I did not want to create a thread in here, because it's not really seduction related ish.

But yeah, I'm pretty confident now, I can go to parties alone and dance without feeling awkward (I get "are you a dancer" a lot). I'm social. I know about fashion and I'm pretty fit. I know how to make people laugh...

I go out in Amsterdam a lot but I'm not from Amsterdam though. I'm also a nightclub photographer who "is not like the rest" (I've been hearing this a lot also), because I actually have fun myself. Other photographers take pics and that's it. I at least try to make it fun for myself but also for others. So I've had met quite a lot of people in 1.5 years now. DJs, photographers etc etc.

But still, I never get invited. When I'm at a nightclub there are always people I know and we always greet each other and maybe have a short conversation. Sometimes I get the feeling they are just being nice, just like, because. Whenever there is an afterparty it seems I only get invited by random people you will never see again, but not by the people I know for a while now.

2015-10-31T19:14:09+00:00

Maybe people are jealous of you? Honestly, a lot of people would rather not have someone else steal the show. If you show up at a party you might ruin their chances at getting laid or whatever.

TheXXL · 2015-10-31T19:26:29+00:00

Maybe you are not the funniest guy. It happens to me occasionally tha t women tell me i am not funny. I dont really care though, since i am not there to entertain people.

Your problem might be that you try to entertain people rather than havin fun yourself, so to speak you are trying too hard to make people like you.

DaygameCoach · 2015-11-01T02:32:06+00:00

Ask this in /highseddit

ApathyTX · 2015-10-31T19:32:41+00:00

"I have great social skills and am very likable"

"I've expanded my social circle"

If you're social and likable, you would be invited.

Title	How to find out about parties and other big social events?
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Date	October 31, 2015 3:55 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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