What do you say to a girl when she asks 'what are you going to do to me?' as you're trying to get her to come home?

Tech_Adam · 2015-11-04T10:35:18+00:00

are you sure you were taking her willingly and you didnt have a knife in your hand?

SuperiorSeduction · 2015-11-04T12:42:31+00:00

She's likely testing your dominance. She must have been either very feminine or submissive. You should've said something like, "I'd rather show you than tell you", with a sly smile.

However, a bit more context would be nice.

PressK · 2015-11-04T12:07:03+00:00

Got a couple of reasons off the top of my head: - Your intentions (you are going to fuck her) weren't super-clear up to that point - If it's while you are on your way home, it could be because you loosened up and let the tension slip away, thus - became a bit boring. She could be trying to incite some dirty talk to get things interesting while you are on the move - She's checking if you are a pussy, who will take her home and wait for her to make the first move. This ties in with 1.

In any of these cases, I wouldn't suggest a direct verbal response, but a direct physical one, while talking about something entirely different. "I've got a great tortoise collection I want to show you", pull her in by the waist and bite her neck. What the fuck? Oh, right - he's gonna fuck me!

nefosjb · 2015-11-04T10:22:50+00:00

"i'm trying to fuck you"

Keanumemes · 2015-11-04T13:41:33+00:00

*tips fedora *

WayOfTheGentleman · 2015-11-04T17:05:09+00:00

You give absolutely zero context here.

No mention of how well you know the girl or what had happened prior to this. Not even any mention of how she said it? Did she sound excited, nervous, horny, terrified?

Nobody can give you any meaningful help here without more details. Guys will act like they know the answer to everything, but they are really just guessing.

evilgenivs · 2015-11-04T20:09:26+00:00

Tell her you will show every corner of your bedroom. Then when you get home you actually show her all the corners.

padre-pedro · 2015-11-05T06:37:25+00:00

Back in my day we'd say 'we're gonna watch a movie' I think now the kids are saying 'netflix and chill' [chill means fuck]

I really feel like you blew it here because if you'd just taken her home and kissed her goodnight then you would have been able to ask her out to seal the deal. Remember how she said she didn't fuck on the first date?

SonOfTerra92 · 2015-11-04T14:02:50+00:00

Frame is the name of the game. Say "I'm gonna have my way with you." is no different from putting whatever politically correct sugar coated phrase to get around her resistance.

The difference is frame. Keep that shit tight.

sedtawy · 2015-11-04T18:57:01+00:00

Depends on the rapport I've built up.

"Who knows. We'll watch a movie, have a drink and just see what happens."

"Come with me and you'll find out"

johnnyfaceoff · 2015-11-05T16:19:57+00:00

You should've just brought her home and you probably would've had sex

MistaFrees · 2015-11-04T09:28:47+00:00

A girl asked me this while riding me on a park bench tonight, and I wasn't really sure how to handle it. what do you guys say? maybe if I had a good answer she would have come home with me ha

Title	What do you say to a girl when she asks 'what are you going to do to me?' as you're trying to get her to come home?
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Date	November 4, 2015 9:28 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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