Coffee date tommorrow, any tips?

Murfdigidy · 2015-11-12T22:13:32+00:00

Listen to her, listen and feed off her ques. Follow up questions to what she says are important but NOT AN INTERVIEW. Really engage her, one trick I know is if you ask her any favorite hobbies, ask her how long she's done dance (let's say that's her favorite hobby) ask her how she grew passionate about dancing, how old she was, or how long she's been doing it and what is it that makes her love dance so much. You see by asking those type of questions you're actually triggering positive emotions when she recalls these memories of why she loves to dance.

If she tries to laugh and say I don't know lol I just love it. Call her out and say bs, there's a reason you love it, there's a reason you've been doing it for years.... It could be it makes you forget, it reduces your stress in an otherwise busy life, or it just brings back happy memories of when I was a kid. Triggering these emotions are great cause they're positive and then she associates you with those positive emotions. Further, it shows youre ENGAGING, you're not asking boring surface bullshit questions, you're looking for more substance, more trueself type stuff.

Anyway there are a ton of other things you can do on the date but my advice for the day is what I said. Good luck and remember, ENJOY IT, if you have fun vibes are contagious, so will she

reddiot666 · 2015-11-12T22:36:39+00:00

coffee dates are terrible. dont expect anything, but maybe its a good chance to touch a little bit and prepare for the next date if she calls you back

resavr_bot · 2015-11-13T14:04:35+00:00

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Yes! If things don't work out, ask her to pay you back for the coffee you bought her! :)

Here are some of the quick tips I can give you:

1- If you are in the cashier line and they ask "are you two together"; you can say "She wants me but I m playing hard to get" with an indifferent face (then crack a smile to her)

2- If she drops something (spoon, napkin, fork, etc) sigh and say "See.. this is why we can't have nice things.. "

3- She mentions something negative about herself: "Sory my hair is a mess / I couldnt find nice clothes for today / This zit appeared this morning and looks ugly!" quickly crack a "I wasn't going to say anything... anyways" and change topic with a slight smile.

4- Some lines you can slip in between : "you don't have to be nervous.." - I m not - "you are taking more seriously than you should.." | she laughs at something you say, or appears clumsy, or compliments you "Please try to control yourself.. [Continued...]

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Gman54 · 2015-11-13T20:58:57+00:00

Update: Date was actually interesting and nice all around, but not beyond that. 95% nothing else will evolve out of it. Had a really interesting and engaging conversation, but just couldn't make kino, felt too self concoius and awkward about it. Ended with her saying "Well it was nice to meet you"... Oh well, at least I had a good time (and I think that she did too). Live & Learn my friends....

Title	Coffee date tommorrow, any tips?
Author	Gman54
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Date	November 12, 2015 9:09 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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