But there's a serious lack of substance on this sub about how to actually tell when a woman likes you. I'm not going to give you that information, there's plenty out there about "IOIs". What I want to give you is the realization that those things matter a lot.

It's great that you can make a woman like you, but you need to figure out when a woman does. Sure, you can work on making women be attracted, but I think a lot of you would do better to recognize when a woman actually tries showing interest. Pay attention fellas, because your success will sky rocket if you focus on women that are actually interested in you.

If you see a woman with a hint of interest and approach that one, then you're guaranteed greater success than approaching women with no interest yet. Even if you don't find a woman attractive, you can talk to her a lot easier than ones you do. Try it sometime, try talking too girls you know you can succeed in a conversation. Trust me, it'll help a ton when you finally come across one you're not sure about.

That's all I wanted to say really, that there are women out there attracted to you. If you're not paying attention to that, then that's you're biggest failing. It's not approach, it's not you're ability to talk, it's not your asperger's, it's not your stutter, it's not that she's out of your league in your mind. It's simply that you aren't paying attention to women that actually want you. Try it sometime.